The Happenings

A Day with Batdorf

2012-01-29T00:15:00.000-05:00

Batdorf Coffee

This morning, I visited the Batdorf and Bronson Coffee Roastery, through an invitation extended by coffee enthusiast and Batdorf social-media master, Jason Dominy. Batdorf and Bronson has built an incredible reputation across the nation, from Olympia, Washington and all across the nation. Jason, too, has developed quite the reputation, ranking as one of the Top 3 Baristas in this region, and a contender in the upcoming SERBC competition. This company first hit my radar several weeks ago when Ben Blake (@bejabl) recommended I meet Jason while living in Atlanta for Campus MovieFest. Upon Jason's recommendation, I began working from Dancing Goats Coffee in Decatur and immediately fell in love with their brewing methods, coffee knowledge, and clean atmosphere that beats a typical office space any day of the week. (If only I could find an electrical outlet to plug in after a few hours of work.) A taste of their Costa Rican Tarrazu was all I needed to understand that these guys were the real deal. Those thoughts were confirmed moments after tweeting live from Batdorf, as @thechavez revealed that the Dancing Goats blend was his first-ever "real, good coffee" experience.

Batdorf teamed up with Groupon's biggest threat, Scout Mob, to invite Atlanta locals to a morning of coffee talk and a look at the local roastery, a spectacular sold-out opportunity that has left plenty of Atlanta residents eager for a second round of opportunity. Having a barista background, I've always felt like I had a slight edge on most people when it comes to flavor descriptors, coffee regions, and even pairings. But my knowledge is scarce in regards to roasting methods and the process of extracting a coffee bean from the cherry. This mornings session at Batdorf took care of that. I gained a wealth of new knowledge; from wet vs. dry processing, an understanding of the difference between robusta and arabic conditions, to a closer look at the Clever drip method. I even managed to catch up on global economics. Did you know that Brazil is the largest producer of coffee in the world? Probably so... But now they are the 2nd largest consumer of coffee, next to the USA.

While Jason teased all of us with his personal coffee cup of "buttermilk" through the tour and training, the wait was well worth it. We tested our knowledge and watched as our two-hours with Jason proved meaningful, tasting three different coffees from various regions. I walked out of the roastery with an exclusive ScoutMob mug, some samples of recently roasted coffee, and an even greater understanding of that mystical power that brings us together as a community. Jason, Batdorf, and many other coffee enthusiasts are simply connecting with their community in an effort to fellowship while educating on the art that we call coffee. An understanding of the methods make a bag of $16.00 coffee one of the most extraordinary experiences one can have in their own home. While it has been years since I made the commitment to coffee with class, I've found an even stronger bond with new brewing methods and the search for the perfect cup. As Jason talked about his many years "in coffee" as a profession, I could only sit and wonder if my high-school dream job was one step closer to a reality. The business model is back out.

Thanks to Jason and Batdorf & Bronson for a wonderful experience and an encouraging opportunity to connect with community members that share similar passions. Be sure to check our Jason's website for some of the best coffee-related you can find on the web, including a great look at the K-Cup Controversy as well as the musings of a fellow food aficionado.

a tasteless pre-roasted coffee bean.

Jason and the legendary roaster, complete with Elvis Presley atop the cooling unit.

2 weeks to go..

2012-01-24T01:41:00.000-05:00

There is just under two weeks to go until the big day.

SUPER BOWL SUNDAY!

Just kidding. No one outside of the New England territory cares much about the game. Anyone in the realm of the advertising world is excited for a year of Twitter-heavy reports, user-generated content, and a heavy criticism of the live performances. But, on February 5th, I wrap up my 2nd annual list "to-do" list, as followed here on this website.

The age of 23 has been incredibly good to me. I can't even begin to summarize it. But with the remaining weeks comes a few small tasks which are yet to be completed. See the video below, as Alex-Anna and I wrapped up one of the tougher tasks which carried over from "22" but is finally complete: visit North Carolina.

Alex-Anna and I share a passion for just picking up and doing something spontaneous, something that may not be the most rational of ideas, but is bound to create an opportunity. On the trip, we both learned just how often we have ended up in similar situations because of the "why not!?" mentality. It's almost to a fault, as we spent over 9 hours driving in a 24 hour time span. But in the end, it always seems to work out and memories are made.

While in Athens at the game, a question came up at halftime. "What are we going to do tonight?". As the conversation wandered aimlessly, we realized that we had plenty of time, a tank of gas, and a bucket list item to visit North Carolina over my head. The rationale was quite irrational, "well,we're already an hour north, so we might as well keep going", but was enough for us to leave the game in the second half and take off. On the trip, I connected with friends via Facebook and Twitter to find that a college buddy lived in Charlotte and worked a night club in the heart of downtown. In minutes, we had a place to stay, free cover into the nicest club in North Carolina, and plans for our evening... but we were sporting Ole Miss t-shirts and wet sneakers. Since our housing was accounted for and the club required nice clothing/no tennis shoes, it only made sense to stop in Anderson, South Carolina for a short shopping trip. From top to bottom, we bought outfits for the evening and continued to North Carolina. By 1PM, we had made it to NC, but the friends apartment was locked up. We took off downtown in pursuit of a changing room, only to settle upon a Hilton hotel. It was exactly what you see in the movies (or Alias, for you vintage television folks). Two normal people browsing a hotel, buying candy at the gift shop to figure out where the nearest bathrooms are, sneaking around and avoiding eye contact, but coming out in the evening's finest as if nothing had happened. Hours later, we were back in our comfortable clothes, Moe's in hand, wondering what the heck had just happened.

Here's the story via Instagram

Brunch in Athens, GA (no thought of North Carolina here)

Ole Miss vs. UGA (where the idea turned into reality)

We had a few of these moments...(addicted)

Charlotte, NC

Sunday brunch with Kyle, grits for the first time

road trippers. we made it.

traditional pose

heading back to GA

truth

Goals, Dreams, and Doing

2012-01-03T14:53:00.001-05:00

As the new year begins, I drive by countless gyms and fitness centers filled with resolution-seeking individuals who are finally making changes that they've "wanted" for a long time now. How many Facebook status' or Tweets have you seen that say:

"This is my year"

"2012 is mine for the taking"

"It's going to be my year"

I have the universe on my side"

All of this resolution talk has me wondering why we have to wait for the start of something new, like a year, to make all these changes? Does the month of January create some sort of mental adrenaline rush that we naturally reach, in hopes that all of our wildest dreams come true? I highly doubt that there is a cosmic force behind January, but I admire that people do take the time to consider their future.

I recently read a 2002 scholarly paper from two men, Edwin Locke and Gary Latham, as it is featured in a Zig Ziglar's Legendary Goals Program, a book that challenges readers to set their goals, know why they want to achieve the goals, and then continuously remind themselves of their intentions.

Essentially:
1. Goals direct attention and effort toward goal-relevant activities and a way from goal-irrelevant activities
2. Goals have an energizing function. Goals create effort.
3. Goals affect persistence. Goals prolong effort.
4. Goals rally us to bring task-relevant knowledge and strategies to the problem at hand.

While I am not a fan of the New Years Resolutions, simply because they rarely last beyond February, I am such a fan of creating monthly/ semi-annual/ annual goals or annual bucket lists. Coming up in February, I will hold myself accountable to the "24 Things Before Turning 24", a list that has traveled with me throughout this year of my life. While I still have several large items to complete (Travel to North Carolina, drive a stick shift, take a homeless person out to eat), I can proudly thank the list for encouraging me to some major things like skydiving, fasting, and writing a thank-you note to a creative.

What are you waiting on? If it's not your birthday, then I challenge you to start now, dividing the time that you have left before your birthday by your age (if you turn 24 in 6 months, then list 12 items by then and start fresh on the birthday).
If you made New Years resolutions, set an accountability check on your phone calendar, computer, or personal planner for every 2 months.
Find out who else is seeking the changes you wish to be a part of, and use our ability to connect to create a tribe of passionate people. (see Seth Godin)
Award yourself for your hard work and ability to stay true, but don't be counteractive (If your resolution is to avoid fried food, don't drive to KFC to celebrate your achievements).

Notes from "Building a Practically Useful Theory of Goal Setting and Task Motivation- A 35 Year Odyssey"

coffee in 3 words

2012-01-01T23:37:00.001-05:00

My friend and former colleague, Ben Blake (@bejabl) asked me and a few others,

"If you could say 3 words about coffee, what would you say?"

While I responded rather quickly, I realized there is so much to this daily indulgence of mine. I was able to come up with three strong words, but felt the need for further conversation.

Culture: the coffee lifestyle is a unique one, to say the least. Perhaps the neatest thing is the segmentation of coffee culture into unique tribes. Generally speaking, you've got coffee drinkers vs.non-coffee drinkers. From there, you have fans of Folgers, Keurig crazies, and home roasters. Within the world of coffee you have vast amounts of diversity, brought together by the simple love of java. I entered into this culture as a child, sipping on my father's black coffee on winter hunting trips. After an embarrassing season in Frappucino world, I discovered the french press. Becoming a Starbucks barista rocked my palate and I learned about the many variables and factors that make a cup of coffee what it is. Today, I still feel as though I am a child of the coffee process, but continue to learn more each and every day.

Community: Coffeehouses, shops, and cafes are my most frequent stops while working and traveling. The environment that it creates is sometimes unexplainable. Drinking a cup of coffee is about the people you are around, the environment that brings you in, and the way that it can unite an entire community. Undoubtedly, my best conversations, business meetings, and opportunities to learn came with a cup in hand. And that environment wouldn't mean anything without the scents of roasted coffee beans, low lighting, and a community of coffee drinkers.

Expression: For those who explore into the depths of the process, coffee is undoubtedly an art. Regions around the world are known for different types of beans. Once you have a roasted bean, there are many factors to be considered like acidity, body, and flavor. Even beyond that comes the brewing methods, brewing, drip, espresso, press, siphon, etc). You can tell a lot about a person simply by what's in their cup. Much like a sports fan wears their team jersey with pride, a coffee-lover takes great joy in their personal preference and desire for "their perfect cup".

If you could say 3 word about coffee, what would you say?

Start Something that Matters

2011-12-24T01:42:00.001-05:00

Every Christmas season, people seem to realize the importance of giving. Speaking honestly, I think that we sometimes fall victim to wondering when those around us are going to start giving, in hopes that maybe we'll receive. (I can admit guilt here) But beyond the Christmas season comes a growing movement. Some may call it a trend, but I would prefer to call it more of a revolution. People are willing to go the extra mile or pay an extra penny to do something that makes a difference, to ensure that no one was harmed in the production process. People are doing something that matters. If you're reading this, chances are you know about my heart of entrepreneurship, creativity, and "Dream Big" ideas. But, just like many other passion-driven creatives out there, the toughest question is "where do I start?"

Blake Mycoskie, founder of TOMS shoes, recently wrote "Start Something that Matters" and I was fortunate enough to get a first glimpse at the book thanks to a special delivery from TOMS. As I started to read, I realized how tough it would be to put this book down, as it answered so many questions that I had about TOMS Shoes, one of the fastest growing shoe companies in the world. I started the book with concerns and bitterness towards Mycoskie, asking "why would he choose to be a for-profit, when he could be a NPO and help more children?", or the question that we ask for everyone who started something, "did you do it for the people or did you do it to make a name for yourself/build identity?" As I began taking notes and soaking up the history of TOMS, I fell more and more in love with this company. Blake challenges readers to consider their passions, start small, dream big, and invest in people. Along with words of wisdom from Blake to every entrepreneur comes the perspective of many other successful dreamers, including Scott Harrison, the brains behind charity:water, whom guarantees his customers that 100% of their purchase is directly contributing to clean water for those who need it most. Tony Hsieh, founder of one of my favorite organizational cultures, Zappos, also speaks wisdom through this book.

I wish I could summarize this book in a few paragraphs, but in looking through my pages of notes and highlights, I realize how little justice I could serve for the wisdom and guidance to anyone interested in taking action for a better good. I encourage anyone with a passion for people, service, and changing the world to grab this book. Purchasing the book actually follows the "One for One" concept that TOMS stands by. For every book purchased, a new children's book will be provided to a child in need through FirstBook.org I will be posting some of my notes later this week, and have a special surprise for those who read my updates.

to know even one life has breathed easier

because you have lived-

this is to have succeeded.

2011-12-12T22:41:00.002-05:00

believe in the power of "we".

Nate O for Journo!

2011-12-10T18:25:00.001-05:00

Just a few things that I believe make me an excellent candidate for the upcoming Outback Bowl:

Klout has one of the best formula's I've seen in regards to social media influence and value. My two most influential topics, according to Klout, are Social Media and Food. Also in my Top Ten are relevant topics including Football and Atlanta.
I would proudly accept any food challenge from Outback. From filets to lobster tail, I’ve never left Outback hungry or unsatisfied. Outback can also take great pride in being the only Steakhouse that doesn't require a large bottle of AI Steak sauce with their steak.
Outback Sponsors NASCAR driver Ryan Newman, who also goes by the nickname "Rocket Man". It’s either irony or fate that Elton John albums bombard my vinyl collection.
Social media is my language. As you can tell in my last post, I take great pride in understanding the tools available today. My introduction to Twitter came in June 2008 when my Advertising internship at Southwest Airlines had me managing customer service conversations and keeping up with the plethora of followers that earned us a spot on Dateline and business blogs around the globe. I have never looked at online social interaction the same. Since then, I have developed social media strategies for over 6 different brands, ranging from small businesses to publications and continue to develop my personal brand for meeting new people and learning more about this world.
I remember watching the Outback Bowl for years, but never from a press box. I've got great memories of former OUTBACK Bowl's, including the 100 yard interception by Walter McFadden in 2010.
I’ve developed a pretty dynamic sports resume over the years.
I worked press and public announcer positions with MVNU for over four years. My claim to fame was probably the rebirth of NBA JAM phrases like “Boomshakalaka” or the invention of Navy transfer Ben Falkenberg’s iconic nickname.
I was a Public Announcer at Kenyon College for home basketball games. A fun fact, Kenyon was voted #1 on the Forbes World's Most Beautiful College Campuses, and recently known for being the backdrop for Joshua Radnor's "Liberal Arts" film.
In 2010, I assisted ESPN analysts and nationwide sports broadcasters during the NCAA March Madness Opening Round. Following the game, I was sent to the press conferences to capture all of the interviews to be sent out to the AP.
I worked for the Dallas Maverick's D-League affiliate, the Texas Legends, as an Account Executive. Prior to that, I received a job offer from the Arizona Diamondbacks, 2001 World Series Champions.
Also in 2010, I was a part of the NCAA Women's Elite 8 games, working alongside ESPN analysts through the afternoon games, and writing a release featuring UCONN's Head Coach Geno Auriemma, who has 7 NCAA National Championships and is a 6-time Naismith College Coach of the year. This also marks the only time I watched a women’s team compete as if they were a men’s college basketball team. Amazing!
Finally, my strongest point: There has always been a fear of mine that I would love to conquer. I remember having nightmares that were both unexplainable and unable to be reconciled. This fear involves one thing: fighting kangaroos. I'm not sure where this fear came about, but the countless YouTube videos do nothing but feed into these emotions. If I were to be a part of the Outback Bowl as a journo, I believe that with the support of spectators, Outback fans, and a fellow journo, I could conquer this fear. The Outback Bowl is bound to have festive celebrations, Aussie parties, and many opportunities for me to see this amazing creature in a new light. And it's not looking like a trip down under is going to be on my radar anytime soon, so this seems to be the best option. In conclusion, for the well-being of my mind, soul, and future adventures, I hope that I am considered to be an Outback journo.

Why I Take my Talents to the Outback

2011-12-10T12:28:00.001-05:00

As many of my social media followers and friends have seen,there’s been a lot of talk about a certain restaurant that I hold close to myheart with an utmost respect. The Outback Steakhouse is more than just a socialmedia presence willing to toss out a Bloomin’ Onion to anyone who gets pluggedin. Growing up, I lived in the Ohio flatlands, formerly known as the BlackSwamp. Going out for a nice dinner was always a special treat, but we heldOutback to an even higher standard, as it became our traditional spot for lunchon Easter Day. While many people stayed in and munched on their favorite fluffyanimal candy or egg-shaped sweet tart, the Okuley household drove over 50 miles to Toledo,Ohio for steaks and Aussie Fries. Now, fast-forward several years to my entranceinto the professional career field. Upon graduation from college, I traveledaround Ohio as an Admissions Counselor and spent almost every Sunday afternoonseeking out that glowing fluorescent sign. The Outback Special became asignature staple of my diet once again, and all was well.

Yes, I admit, the OutbackSteakhouse has recaptured my heart, thanks to the help of their brilliantsocial media strategies and personal touches with their fans and followers. Anybrand that is willing to invest in the opportunities that have been given tothem to invest in their customers will receive my loyalty. It’s why I flySouthwest, my shoes are bought through Zappos, and my underarms are satisfiedby the oddly made comeback of Manta Claus and Old Spice. The rapid development of online interaction is moving faster than everbefore, so much so that keeping up with the latest apps is almost impossible.But I can clearly appreciate being recognized as an individual with value ratherthan just a wallet with cash ready to be used.

So with that, I patiently wait upon a phone call from the Outback Steakhouse, in hopes that I will be joining them this Holiday season for the matchup between Michigan State, the Big Ten Champions and the Georgia Bulldogs, a SEC team which I had little hope for in the first weeks of the season. These are excellent teams, and the Outback Bowl has plenty of legacy worth admiring. The SEC vs. Big Ten feud is held close to my heart, and despite a track record of SEC teams winning the BCS Championship, I still believe in the power of brute force football that can only be found in the midwest.

Just throwing this out there too, 68 degrees and Sunny sounds a bit more appealing to me than 24 degrees and rainy in Ohio. Later this week, I'll share a few reasons why I believe I am the perfect candidate journo for the Outback Bowl. I'm no bludger, and hope that Outback will give me a fair go.

Klout Perks #2

2011-12-09T00:07:00.001-05:00

I received a knock on my door this afternoon, only to find an even bigger box with KloutPerks on the front. This one came refrigerated, in a cooler, with more than one gift. Watch the video below to see what I've got. This one hits closer to home.

Klout Perks revealed

2011-12-06T23:35:00.001-05:00

A few months ago, I started checking into a new website, called Klout. A few friends were getting plugged in, but it was still pretty new and had a lot of room for improvement. Over the last two months, rapport has grown and +K is showing up in the news and media, including a recent article that explains why President Obama has less Klout than Robert Scoble. (It's not a matter of popularity, but the effective use of social media) Klout pulls statistics and content information from your social media mediums such as Facebook, Twitter, Vimeo, YouTube, and more. A somewhat complicated process created the score, but is essentially your ability to drive action or influence others (Read more about the process here). I've got to hand it to founder, Joe Fernandez, as he has created a great formula and social media concept with plenty of opportunity for the future. As Klout has grown and developed its personal brand, more and more businesses are getting involved. Enter the Klout Perks. Users are able to qualify for product tests, special deals and discounts, and even VIP invitations to events based upon their social influences and location.

Here is me opening my first Klout Perk package that I received tonight. I'd say the bar has been set pretty high, but I am grateful that I am noted for my influence in Social Media. It's one of my passions, and I love having the opportunity to network with people from all over the world. Beyond that, it is so cool to get new products and see how they compare to my current favorites.

Thanks Klout!

Post-Tour Thoughts (Part 2)

2011-11-23T12:12:00.001-05:00

Find Something You Love.….and Life-Balance

Our generation is always pursuing the “perfect job”. Most of the time, a twentysomething has no desire to sit in an office every day running reports or making cold calls. Most people want the non-traditional approach to a job, getting paid to do something we love. Those who are young at heart embrace an adventure. But, on the other hand, many have a desire to date, to be with their friends, and to go out. Life is all about rhythms and seasons. The seasons of adventure in life come and go, but we are mandated to seek positive rhythms, which evolve around balance. Pursue what you love. Find something that’s worth waking up early and going to bed late. Know it doesn’t always fall into your lap.

Write often.

There is a tough line to draw when it comes to the opportunities to embrace what is around and taking the time to process and write. In my last post, I mentioned the chances I had to connect with people by keeping the book in my backpack or the headphones stored away. This comes at a cost, as my time spent reading and seeking growth in education was hit by the adventurous mindset of a nomad. Don’t forget to take the time to write about all of the things around you. Be descriptive, and don’t buy the lie that you tell yourself, “I’m not going to forget this”. When you are in a new culture that is full of exciting adventures or diverse situations, the chances that you truly process all of them is slim to none.

“Patience in the companion of wisdom”- Saint Augustine

I wish I could sit here and make a list of those who have been incredibly patient with me throughout this tour, without driving away readers. I’ve struggled to maintain contact with many very important people in my life. Conversations typically involve a short life update and little beyond that. After weeks of not communicating, it is such a blessing to connect with a friend and within minutes, we are back to where we left off, and our friendship is affirmed.

Appreciate the simplicities of people, embrace their presence.

Some of the best interactions and conversations that I had throughout this tour, believe it or not, came in an unorthodox place; FedEx/Kinko’s. Our organization is constantly sending/receiving equipment, so I quickly became a “regular”. In San Francisco, I got to know a gentleman by the name of Adrian. It started with simple thoughts from my day and grew into the most encouraging words I would receive every day. Once we moved to Oregon, I expected nothing more than a typical shipping experience, but grew to love Debbie and the entire gang at the Corvallis, who patiently accepted our 125 lb. shipments that came in batches of four. Invest in those around you. Even in the 48 hours that I was in Atlanta, I had a wonderful conversation with the lady who picked up our FedEx packages. She was quick to introduce herself, crack a joke, and welcome “the new guy”. This is a shout out to FedEx as well, as they are proving themselves quite well from east to west.

Positivity is contagious. Negativity is a wildfire.

Find those around you that are blessed with the ability to maintain a positive attitude. When you hit crunch time, this has an amazing ability to shape your experiences. Positivity is not my forte, as I tend to be more of a realist than an optimist, however I have been given abundances of positivity through a select few people in my community. Even if you are not positive from the moment you wake up until the late nights of your longest days, be sure to check yourself when negativity strikes. One negative remark, thought, or action not only affects your personal outlook of the circumstances, but it’s bound to bring down those around you as well. The power that we hold in our interpersonal communication is not only profound, but also empowering.

Post-Tour Thoughts (Part 1)

2011-11-19T14:20:00.001-05:00

I’ve been “on tour” for 11 weeks and entering a season of what I hope is filled with rest, rejuvenation, and growth of knowledge. This is the third job I’ve had which involves a lot of time on the road, but this has been an entirely different experience. Through my experience, I have composed a series of life lessons and daily application which is relevant to my time in the Pacific Northwest

Flexibility is the best plan you can create.

During my “most-organized” event of the semester, I found myself in a whirlwind of situations popping up along the way, creating all sorts of question and uncertainty. I’ve always tried to plan ahead as much as I can, relying on lists and late nights of playing an event, or even a full day, in my mind over and over, simulating how I could conquer the battles ahead. During this event, I seemed to be losing it all; equipment, red carpet tape, and my pants. I can shamefully say that during the evening of the Finale, I left my dress pants hanging on my door 75 miles from us, and relied on our lovely promoters assistance to manage a pair of trousers for the finale. Note to the masses: no matter how much you plan ahead, your best bet is to eliminate expectations and open up to the realm of possibilities.

Surrounding yourself with good people isn’t physically proximal.

While on the west coast, I was fortunate enough to meet new friends as well as see a few old friends, which was such an encouragement after many long weeks. But beyond that lies a community of people who reached out to me, despite the distance and pesky time differences. I spent many late nights on Skype catching up with my best of friends, responding to fantasy football trash talk, and texting any chance I’m not driving across the country or running a show. With today’s resources comes a viable opportunity to maintain community and establish a support system essential to your well-being. Embrace those communities.

Smile; It's an underrated nonverbal communicator

A friend of mine challenged me to smile at more people, and when appropriate, even consider a wink. It’s pretty dynamic how much more respect you will receive and give when you make the intentional decision to be kind, patient, and to smile. Some of the best conversations and unique opportunities to meet people came in restaurant lines, public transportation, and situations that typically involved a pair of headphones. I write this immediately following a conversation with the man on the plane next to me. Don't be afraid to smile at a stranger. Chances are, it will include a brief conversation or perhaps even a heart to heart. Everyone's got a story, and there are very few people who will turn down a friendly person.

Ambition and perseverance is what separates dreamers from achievers.

There are a lot of times that my friends tell me, “you’re always coming up with some crazy idea for what to do next”, and the most commonly asked question is, “how do you get these opportunities?”. While I've been extremely blessed in my life experiences, it goes even deeper than that. We were created to create. It dates back to the Scripture, in which God designated that man was to name all of nature. Our human nature is to create, to innovate, and to improve upon what we currently have in front of us. I’m a huge advocate of big dreams. But upon dreaming, don’t forget that even more important word; do. Try it out. You will fail, and fail again, and once more even. But in what we identify as failures, we actually are taking steps towards a greater success, perhaps in a defining way that we had not yet discovered.

film challenge

2011-11-10T01:46:00.000-05:00

I work for the World's Largest Student Film Festival.
I have not watched a recent non-CMF film since August, 2011.
I've never seen Indiana Jones, The Lord of the Rings, or the Matrix films in their entirety.

The NorCal CMF team quickly caught on, as early as the first day of driving to California, that there are a lot of movies that I have not seen; many of which are "legendary", "must-see's", and "classics". While I would like to claim an interest in film diversity, I can't honestly say that there are some films that have slipped through the cracks over the years. During the infamous MVNU J-Term, I spend one month watching over 30 movies that were recommended by my friends and co-workers. It was extremely fun, and I was able to enter into many more film conversations than ever before. In 2009, I was able to watch my first television series from start to finish as I was captivated by the stories and uncertainty in LOST. In 2011, I dove into the world of documentaries, from independents to the most controversial social conversations.

The Fall tour has wrapped up and I am fortunate to spend a few weeks off the road and preparing for the Spring tour. During this preparation time, I am willing to "sacrifice" for the sake of my position to commit to watching these films that people hassle me endlessly about. So here's where you get involved:

1. Comment below with your name, email address, and a film that you think I should watch.
2. Tell me why the stated film is worth checking out. (no spoiler alerts)
3. When did you first watch this film and what can you remember about that experience?

I will be attempting to watch all of these films by February, 2012 (subject to content discretion). I am excited to see what films you believe are the best, as well as those which you can't believe I have not seen. If you mention a film that I have already seen, I will notify you and offer up another opportunity to select af film. Time starts now.

Skydiving in Sonoma (Bucket List Item #2)

2011-10-27T19:18:00.000-04:00

Back on October 15th, I took a leap.

Literally.

This year has been filled with tons of Bucket List accomplishments, but beyond that it's just been filled with opportunities to try new things and make new memories. Here is the footage from my skydive experience in Sonoma County. While living in San Francisco, I determined that skydiving needed to happen in an area that was beautiful, unique, and extraordinary from the sky. When Groupon featured NorCal Skydiving, I knew it would be the space for my next adventure. It came down to my final weekend in Northern California to make it happen, but the good people at NorCal opened up a 9AM jump for me on the morning of my final finale.

It was really difficult for me to not share my enthusiasm and excitement for this experience through social media. I decided it would be best to avoid telling my parents before it happened, so that any burden of fear would not be upon them. I paid to have the jump recorded, and immediately sent the DVD to my parents as a special "Video Update from NorCal". Now that they have seen the video, it's time for friends and family to check it out.

More dives will be in my future, hopefully all around the world. Now accepting applications for skydiving pals.

~~#2 Go Skydiving~~

CMF NorCal

2011-10-02T15:02:00.000-04:00

I've been living in San Francisco for 6 weeks now. My time in the Bay is coming to an incredibly fast "end". We have two more weeks here, which are about to fly by as we have 9 large events at universities all around the Bay area. Last week, we wrapped up our first Finale at UC Berkeley. It was quite the rush and such an energetic evening. It's incredible how many people work tirelessly so that events like this can happen. Being the Tour Manager has been an amazing blessing so far. Team NorCal is absolutely incredible. We're from all over the place (Ohio, Atlanta, New Jersey, and Vermont) and we all play a specific role in each event that we host. But one thing continues to be the same: we love these events and love the film industry. From top to bottom, Campus MovieFest believes in the creative talents of young people around the world and what started as the question, "What would happen if we gave people the equipment to create a film in one week?" has progressed into the world's largest student film festival.

Here is a look at one of my favorite films from CMF: UC Berkeley, "Three Penny"

Green Watch Productions won "Best Comedy" and will be attending CMF Hollywood.

A typical CMF Collection. Ramsey assisting students.

The stars behind "Cowboy and Indian"

Berkeley's Best Actor

Music Moments

2011-10-01T05:26:00.000-04:00

Currently Listening: Switchfoot's "Vice Verses"
Guilty Pleasure: Lil Wayne, "The Carter IV"
Latest Purchase: Needtobreathe "The Reckoning"
Most Anticipated Release: Mutemath "Odd Soul"October 4th
Not Feeling It: Blink 182 "Neighborhoods"
Unexposed Talent: The Lighthouse and the Whaler "Venice"
Last Seen: Bright Eyes, M. Ward, Robert Plant and the Band of Joy @ Hardly Strictly Bluegrass
Most Memorable: Band of Horses @ The Fillmore
Biggest Regret (Missed Show): Bon Iver @ the Greek (UC Berkeley)
Upcoming Must-See: Explosions in the Sky, Death Cab for Cutie @ Treasure Island Music Festival

This post is brought to you with special shout outs to:
Spotify- the perfect tool for checking out the newest releases before purchasing.
Rexly- These guys are based out of SF and just launched their iPhone app this month. I attended their launch party this week and was really impressed with the product. It synchronizes social media tools and allows a fast-access to your most trusted friends and what they are listening too on their iPhone. I dig it.

as written on the muni

2011-09-02T03:43:00.001-04:00

This may sound a bit hipster. I'm in San Francisco.
Written while sitting on the San Francisco MUNI public transportation, via iPhone notepad.

Looking out the window, I see an abundance of difference. A plethora of diversity. A spectacle of unseen for a Midwestern boy seeking out new culture like Fivel went west. Tonight was a night that fully evolved around new food, new places, and new people. After successfully purchasing a Clipper card to access public transportation, I hopped on the public transit in San Francisco and strolled to Upper Haight to join in the festivities called "Off the Grid".

Every Thursday evening, tons of people from around the area gather near the park as the best food trucks gather around for an international festival of foods and drink. I met a woman who had just moved back for grad school after two years of teaching in Honduras (she had wonderful stories), all discussed over a phenomenal handful of sweet potato fries with lemon, basil, garlic, and feta (LIBA Falafel). The regulars recommended a delicious Chicken Tikka Massala burrito from Curry Up Now, and I wrapped up the event with a heart-stopping Tiramasu cupcake from Cupkates. I will admit, Columbus knows how to do food trucks extremely well, especially Mikey's Late Night Slice, but San Francisco took a nice run for the top prize tonight.

The MUNI was today's conquered battle. Public transportation has never been my forte. I come from a town (or village/township) where public transportation typically referred to a four wheeler you borrowed from the neighbor or the day where people drove their tractors to school. I remember fearing for my life in college when I hopped onto the Phoenix railway and sat across from a homeless man who was higher than a kite and staring right at me with reflections of his days in war. That moment scared the desire to hop on trains and buses right out of me. Today I find a new, deeper respect for these routes. Even though I may not totally understand why I must "take the N" or "get a Clipper pass, then toss on the BART credit", I can certainly feel this city already. It is almost ironic that in the moment I write this, I am listening to one of my favorite artists, Sigur Ros. Some of the most intimate moments I have had with music in my life involve this band as they sing Icelandic gibberish. I may not understand it, but I feel it. I get it.

I get what they are about. In San Francisco, presumptuous is less of an adjective or more of a lifestyle. But within that vulnerability and ability to build confidence in self, I see an honest, caring community of people that realize we're all doing this thing called life at the same time. So why not do it together over a falafel or sangria? Diversity wins. Embrace it.

tradition continues

2011-08-22T18:09:00.000-04:00

Getting to the airport can be such a pain in the behind. I clearly remember the standby flights and the tension that went with it while working for Southwest Airlines. And in Uganda, they just decide to shut down airlines for the night a bit earlier than expected, which is an experience post in itself. But at places like the Dayton International Airport, this isn't the case. I was checked in, through security, and holding a cup of Boston Stoker fresh brew within 10 minutes. Which means it's writing time.

I am down to my final hour in Ohio for a few months, with a whole list of states coming up in my near future. The first of these destinations is Atlanta, GA. I'll be training with my team at Campus MovieFest and preparing for our road trip journey to San Francisco. It's estimated to be about a 40 hour trek, which will include a box truck stocked full of supplies, a minivan, and four of us to cover the driving. The furthest road trip I've ever had was with David Ranzino, as we ventured from Orlando to Pittsburgh to start our Relevant Magazine/ Love Alliance Summer Tour. For 18 hours, we talked about everything imaginable, as we had only met for a brief minute before that. Both of our iPods were dead, and we actually never even turned on our radio through the entirety of the trip. I didn't think that type of conversation was even possible, but it launched a memorable summer.

Earlier this week, someone reminded me, "you were made for journeys". I remember how many books I've read, albums I've listened too, and conversations I've had while in the airport or on the road. It's been some of the finest moments of my life. I've been in a season of adventure, travel, and desires to see the world while hearing the stories of others. I'm consistently reminding myself of the need for intentionality within this. It'd be so easy to put on the headphones, keep my head down while walking the streets, and avoid any interaction with my environment.

Why not now?

Uganda Play Some Baseball?

2011-08-17T17:15:00.000-04:00

If I could sum up a few of my favorite things of 2011, I think it can be summed up by this: my experience to Uganda, Africa and my summer involvement in softball tournaments. When considering what I invested the most time into outside of my job, it would be these two experiences. I grew up playing baseball. I can still remember some of my earliest games in my backyard (I clearly remember my guilt when I broke the siding on our back shop), my first games of t-ball on the Burgundy team, and the feeling of joy when I received my varsity baseball jersey during my Freshman year. I have several uncles who played baseball very seriously, and grew up around the game and in the dugout as a bat boy. But whoever said that it's simply America's game has a challenge. A few weeks ago, I heard about the Ugandan Little League team as they became the first African team to qualify for the Little League World Series. News reports were noting that it was very difficult for the Ugandan team to get to the World Series as many young people do not even know their age and date of birth. While in Uganda, I saw this issue firsthand, as many children will never be able to leave the country because of the lack of paperwork. It's incredibly discouraging to know individuals who suffer from this downfall of the economical and social cultures of Uganda.

There is a need for training, education, and assistance for the people of Uganda. Not just in the game of baseball, but in the process of citizenship and paperwork. Just by simply following this situation, my heart yearns for these children to have the memories and experiences that created my childhood. Watch the short documentary as seen on ESPN by Jay Shapiro. My heart breaks for these children, yet I am so encouraged by their heart, their desire, and their dreams.

Richard Stanley, a former Chemical Engineer with Proctor & Gamble, in connection with the United States Agency for International Development (USAID) is already taking strides to make this happen. I hope that some day I may connect with Richard and learn more ways to be a part of this young movement. For now, I simply imagine the possibilities, to be a part of a community of people that rally behind the use of sports such as baseball to educate young people and be a testimony of hope and encouragement. I wonder how I could connect the millions of children in the United States with simple ways to support their brothers and sisters on the other side of the world so that they can share in something that we all love and enjoy.

Onward.

2011-08-15T18:30:00.001-04:00

This past year, my writing has been less critical review and marketing analysis and a lot of reflection and even personal identity. I’ve lived in half a dozen places and it’s been an incredible opportunity to be back at MVNU in the Admissions department since November. What a ride!

About 10 weeks ago, I felt affirmed that it was time to move in a new direction, one of which I have been very uncertain about. Anyone who has been in the job market at all in the past 2-3 years can understand the hesitancy and fear of leaving a job without a backup plan, but I felt as though that leap of faith was necessary and next in my journey. When considering “work”, I challenge myself to consider roles that aren’t looked at as a job or work, but rather an enlightening experience of both value and testimony. Maybe someday a standard 8-4 office job will feel ideal, but for now I’ve got an enthusiasm to wake up and work hard for something I believe in. The Admissions Counselor position has been all of that and more, which has sparked my enthusiasm for high expectations. I interviewed for a few jobs around the country, from marketing to higher education positions, looking for something that just felt perfect, as I hear stories of many peers that communicate their regrets or disappointments that they didn’t embrace the early 20’s season to explore. The people that I work with at MVNU are my family and friends, and it will be difficult to find a group of people who are so dedicated to what they do and the countless hours of investment that go into what they do. None of us would be here in the office if we didn’t love MVNU, our college experience, and our work environment. The standard has been set as dance parties and flexibility of work atmosphere is a requirement for any and all positions I take from here on.

When it comes to the students, it is incredibly difficult to leave this position. This year’s incoming Freshmen will be the third class that I have worked with since being hired back in May 2009. These kids are incredibly passionate, driven, and ready to change the world. I’ve been incredible honored to be a part of their college process, and it is sad that I will not be able to share in the joys and excitement of MVNU Move-In Day this year. Beyond this class, there have been thousands of younger students whom I have shared with and I can only hope that I’ve been able to plant a seed of encouragement or even joy in those moments, beyond college preparation and career thought processes. At the end of the week, it's less about college acceptance letters and more about hearing the stories of many people and building connections that offer growth, wisdom, and opportunity.

Last week, the transition out took a magnificent leap in a new direction. While looking at jobs, I knew that now was the time to be picky. I’ve got two years of professional experience since graduation and a wide variety of experiences in those years. Beyond that, I’ve got a pretty unique set of passions and interests in different industries. My desires to see the world have been almost uncontainable since my trip to Uganda back in March. On Wednesday afternoon, I accepted a new position with a company called Campus MovieFest. I am now the Tour Manager for a team of four that will be based in San Francisco and Portland for the 9 months visiting college campuses with one primary focus: providing college students with the necessary technology and training to tell their stories on the big screen through film. CMF started with a crazy idea: what would happen if we passed out computers and cameras to students? Film has been a big part of my life, as I began filming and editing videos when I was only 14 years old. I’ve explored the arts of writing, music, and photography, but videography captivates me more so than any of these other mediums. While on the road, we will be connecting with thousands of young people, specifically students on the West Coast, in hopes that we can encourage and guide the future of the industry while simply fostering the creativity of young minds around the world (CMF is also traveling through Mexico and has plans in Europe as well). I've never been to San Francisco, Portland, and most of the Pacific Coast. This is going to be an AWESOME way to experience it while making a difference.

Details will continue to pour out as they come, as well as a lot more updates on the transition. Next Monday, I fly down to Atlanta for some extensive training, and then our team will road trip to San Francisco. Friday will be my last day at MVNU, and I am currently moved out of my home, soaking up the day-to-day adventure that comes with it. It’s all a part of my master plan: to change the world and keep on living the dream.

Creating content. Being Inspired. Encouraging you to do the same.

flash mob, its my job

2011-07-16T17:03:00.001-04:00

~~#22 Be in a flash mob~~

~~#27 Be a street performer in a large city~~

Last week was a big one. For over a year, the Mount Vernon Nazarene University Admissions team has been preparing for the Nazarene Youth Conference, a large meeting of Nazarene young people from all over the world that happens every four years. In years past, this event became giveaway madness, most students hoping for a few free t-shirts and maybe a sticker or two that they would put on their school notebooks. Our team has been blessed with the desire to be more of an influence than just a giveaway university. We also have changed our strategy into a more intentional atmosphere, seeking out students that want to make a difference and are accepting of the challenge to "change the world with the love of Christ".

We received over 5,000 responses to the question, "How will you change the world?", confirming our prediction that today's youth are passionate and ready to make a difference. How awesome is it that we get the opportunity to work with these kids every day? Beyond that, by connecting with students as they prepare for college, I am able to be used for the next step in their training and experiences which will shape the rest of their lives.

The MVNU region decided that we would make a lasting impression the entire city of Louisville, Kentucky while we were there. We organized a Flash Mob with over 600 people from the MVNU Region. You can see one of the viral videos here:

Not only was this an absolute BLAST, it also helped me cross off Bucket List item #22: Be in a Flash Mob. I never really anticipated that this would be the nature of the flash mob that I would be a part of, but it's the largest flash mob I have seen and the experience was incredible.

Several nights later, an opportunity to cross off another Bucket List item fell into my lap. While walking down the street from our hotel to the convention center, I talked to a man playing guitar on the sidewalk. After he complimented the group on our energy and enthusiasm, I told him that if he was still around that night, I would stop by and do some freestyle rapping with him. We exchanged laughs and continued on our way. Several hours later, that man was a block down from his original position. He laid down an acoustic rap beat and I started collaborating. I can't really remember what was said in that freestyle, but the words flowed pretty well as I looked down the block and into business windows to see what I could rap about. By the end of the rap, everyone on the street was dancing and getting down. A food vendor looked over at me and simply asked, "Where'd that come from?"

I don't know where my ability to freestyle rap came from. I started practicing it in the shower during my summer in Orlando, which complimented my beatboxing. It continued during long drives across the state of Ohio as an Admissions Counselor. One of these days I hope to expand beyond the basic rhymes and actually develop something that can spark a large crowd applause.

the MVNU NYC Staff

Noah and Jenesis, current world changers

Hyping up the crowd of 6,000 before giving away a $40,000 scholarship

imagine vs. dream

2011-07-08T16:17:00.000-04:00

I've always been a big fan of dreaming. While in conversation, I tend to flock towards those with big aspirations for their lives. My typical response to "How are you?" is often times, "Just livin' the dream". I've been blessed with a personality that loves to think strategy and innovation while the activator in me fights to push projects to completion. I work best with a group of both creatives and engagers.

This afternoon while sitting in a tea shop waiting for a video file to upload, I saw a cheesy inspirational piece of artwork in the men's bathroom. (Side note: perhaps all of the bad art ends up in the men's bathrooms because the likelihood of a man critiquing art is lesser than that of a female, and the likelihood of a man discussing bathroom atmosphere beyond flatulents and bombs being dropped is near impossible.) The artwork was written in mass-multitude calligraphy and read:

"if you can imagine it,

you can dream it.

Dream it

and you can

become it"

When I looked beyond the Kincaid-style of the text, I saw some pretty incredible value in this. Then I realized how often I use these words simultaneously. Imagine this. No wait, dream it! Maybe both?

After a bit of research, I summarized that to imagine is to experience something that you have not seen or felt before. To dream means you are in a deep slumber, your mind processing things that you have already experienced in one way or another. When I think in terms of creating, ideation, marketing, I typically drift to the "dreaming" language. Maybe all of us need to stop dreaming based on what we have seen on each other's blogs and out in pop culture. It simply becomes a cycle of inspiration from which we pull our ideas solely out of someone else's idea (but not quite Inception). But what if we all started imagining, then teamed up with a group of activator's that remind us to stop "just imagining and start doing". Can we become what we imagine, or is it only possible after we have dreamt about it?

Just to be difficult and trendy, can you imagine dreaming or maybe dream of imagining? What's that look like?

Bucket List Accountability

2011-06-14T00:25:00.000-04:00

24 Before Turning 24

Tonight felt like the first night that I truly embraced summer. I grilled out and made a meal for a group of friends, sat up a tent and hung out in the back yard, tossed the football around, lit sparklers, sat on the roof talking, and just did all of the things that make summer so wonderful. It seemed like a great time to update on the Annual to-do bucket list.

1. Skydive

~~2. Leave the country~~ Went to Uganda, Africa in March-April

~~3. Write a poem~~ Finished on June 3rd

~~4. Raise $1,000~~ Completed with the help of the Extended Melody Project + Uganda fundraising.

5. Successfully do 75 consecutive pushups/ 10 pullups.

6. Run a half marathon

7. Read one book every month (This is going well so far)

8. Get a new business card

9. Go one month without additional expenses

~~10. Fast 5 times~~ (embraced the lent season in a way I've never done before)

11. Visit North Carolina

12. Take a homeless person out for a meal

~~13. Host a large event~~ Extended Melody Project is somewhat relevant, but it wasn't "my event" necessarily. I hope to host again.

~~14. Connect with a celebrity on Twitter~~ Connected with Elizabeth Olsen via Twitter on June 11th.

~~15. Help someone travel the world~~ I have had an overwhelming response from friends and friends of friends interested in going to Africa and seeing the world. Had some awesome conversations with young people who are going to pursue opportunities in service and ministry before heading to college. Kristin is currently serving in Uganda as well.

~~16. Make a significant contribution to an organization that I believe in~~ Working with My Father's House International to develop their marketing materials, website, fundraising materials, and videography. Over $2,500 was donated to them through raised support.

17. “Judge a book by the cover” and review it.

18. Send a thank you letter to a creative

~~19. Get a crowd pumped up~~ April, MVNU Breakaway + BLAST 2011

20. Go on a first date

21. Drop everything and do something

~~22. Learn how to snowboard~~ February

23. Drive a stick shift

24. Create a cookbook

Despite a new year, some things remain constant. Everyone has a story, they’re just waiting on someone who is ready to listen. Soli deo Gloria, glory to God alone in everything.

Here’s to the year. Excitement to come.

Turntable.FM

2011-06-07T14:32:00.000-04:00

The power of social media meets the influence of music.

Over a year ago, an entrepreneurial-minded friend of mine came to me with this idea to create a social network that evolved around the question, "What are you listening too?". It made sense, as most of us were using our Twitter and Facebook's to tell people what we listen to while we drink latte's, sit on the porch, or drive the backroads. Our Facebook walls were filled with music videos and new songs that we'd try to one-up each other with. Social Music was happening indirectly, but it didn't seem like anyone had committed to the industry quite yet.

We talked about how we could sell this new social music idea to iTunes and make enough money to quit our jobs and live the dream, as it work be a viral form of music sales, an audio YouTube to say the least. (I guess we all watched the Social Network too many times) Unfortunately, our lack of experience in coding (none) and web allowed many others the chance to shine and our opportunity slipped on by. If I can't create it, I'll certainly play around and find out what's already out there. Recent ASU grad Kirsten Stubbs of social media powerhouse Digital Royalty (known for their recent partnership with Shaq as he announced his retirement on social media first) posted on Twitter about a new social network that integrated avatars and streaming music playlists. Turntable.fm is an exclusive online music streaming meets social networking created by Seth Goldstein and Billy Chasen. Users with a Facebook friend that is registered to the site are allowed access, otherwise they sit on a "waiting list" and anxiously wait on an invite.

The truth is, most of us think we are God's gift to the world when it comes to our iTunes playlists. Turntable.FM allows users the opportunity to shine. There is already a database of user-uploaded music, or users can upload their own music to play in their DJ Queue. Each room, which reminds me of the popular days of chat rooms, features five spots on the table for DJ's to share their music. The room playlist moves from left to right down the table, and users have the ability to rate the current song (Lame/Awesome). DJ's are awarded points based off of positive reviews, but too many negative reviews skips the song and moves the party on to the next user. Not only do you get to build your own playlist, but you have the opportunity to share it with the world, as I recently found out in a dubstep room featuring three users from Europe. I've only been on Turntable for a day now, but I've spent over 5 hours investing into my playlist and interacting with current users, the early adopters. The options for customization and personalization are still young and minimal, however I anticipate the development of alternatives to the head bob seal of approval. (I'm shooting for a sponsored pelvic thrust option). Ultimately, Turntable.FM paves the road for music-saavy millenials to build a rapport and stream their favorite music, while meeting people with similar tastes. I even happened to meet some guys in Seattle that were hosting a room to listen to music while they were hard at work on their entrepreneurial startup. We were able to toss around some ideas for making the most out of this new media, and I wish them the best as they continue their startup. A simple edit to your DJ username and you've started promoting your twitter username for future connections.

You May Listen to Turntable.FM if...
1. You did a report in the 5th grade about being a DJ
2. You already use up 3-4 Pandora accounts each month
3. Your friends call you a music snob
4. You have a notebook of social media ideas
5. You have hipster glasses
6. You go to cheap bars trying to find the next band before someone else does.
7. You have a secret stash of glowsticks in your desk in case the right opportunity arises for a dance party
8. Your idea of a full-time job is attending Bonnaroo.

Later this week, I will be hosting a "Songs of Summer" room featuring the mixes submitted by users in the Songs of Summer Challenge.

Music for my Beaches

2011-06-04T16:28:00.000-04:00

In honor of summer, I am hosting the "Songs of Summer" challenge, as mentioned in my previous post. Today I will be revealing my first summer playlist, which is available for all subscribers upon request and all participants in the challenge. So far we have 10 submitted playlists, which will highlighted throughout the summer. It's not too late to get signed up using the Facebook page, my blog, and an invite into the Dropbox folder.

First up, is a personal playlist I like to call "Songs for my Beaches". This mix is entirely devoted to upbeat summer music. These are the songs most likely to be bumped at your beach party, or cranked to the max on the drive to the lake. Many songs on this mix would not make my standard day-to-day mix, but because of the season, they have to be mentioned.These songs sit close to my heart, dating back as far as my first summer with a car while driving to graduation parties (Outkast) to new additions this summer (Florence and the Machine).

Music for my Beaches!

1. Everlasting Light - The Black Keys
2. Evil Urges- My Morning Jacket
3. Walking the Dog- Fun
4. Summer Love/Set the Mood - Justin Timberlake
5. Soundtrack 2 My Life - Kid Cudi
6. Dog Days are OVer- Florence and the Machine
7. Electric Feel- MGMT
8. Over - Drake
9. Roses - Outkast
10. Reset- Mutemath
11.Bilar- Ratatat
12.Waters of Nazareth -Justice
13. Move- Ludacris
14. My Love - Justin Timberlake (feat. TI + Timbaland)
15. Hard Times- John Legend and the Roots
16. All of Your Love- Hellogoodbye
17. Way I are - Timbaland (feat. Keri Hilson)
18. Sleepyhead- Passion Pit
19. Dynamite- Taio Cruz

source

Let's hear some feedback. The next posting will be coming from another Songs of Summer participant, Jenesis Torralba, our youngest participant so far.

Songs of the Summer Challenge

2011-05-28T16:51:00.000-04:00

It may almost be June, but all of us here in Ohio can proudly proclaim "It's Summer!" after what felt like the longest winter ever. Summer traditionally brings a few things to the table:

an over consumption of homemade lemonade, iced coffee, & chai
grilling out more than cooking indoors
long nights around the campfire
baseball games and golf outings
outdoors concerts as often as possible
sand volleyball and softball games anywhere you find 6+ people
music playing loudly anywhere and everywhere

Some of my life's best memories are from the summer season. Our summer baseball team would always carpool to our early evening doubleheaders. The team would pack into a handful of cars and set out on the long and boring journeys with the windows open, and my built-in stereo system struggling to compete with customized amplifiers and subwoofers. There just wasn't anything cool about driving in a 1993 Pontiac Grand Am. I remember spending hours trying to adjust my bass, treble, front + back settings on my car just trying to make the most out of what I had. But the best summer drives were the long ones with best friends. Seasonal music listeners like myself often find their "summer mix" or maybe just a "summer album". I clearly remember listening to the Red Hot Chili Peppers albums over 50 times in one summer. In college, I played Justin Timberlake's "Future Sex/ Love Sounds" CD until it could barely spin. Other recognizable artists include John Mayer, Underoath, Copeland (evenings only), and Mae. I've had a different summer playlist every year since high school, and I am struggling to create the perfect mix for this season.

As the Summer of 2011 begins, I want to hear the summer mixes of music lovers from all over the world.

One Question: What are you listening too this summer? What can be heard booming from your stock stereo system as you drive? What waves are moving through your trendy white headphones while you ride your vintage bike downtown? What's the best song to sip lemonade too?

Share your favorite summer playlists, and all those that submit entries will have access to the summer mixes from every person that gets involved in the "Songs of the Summer" Challenge.

So here's what to do:

Create your ultimate summer music playlist (up to 3 entries per person)
Upload your playlist to the shared Dropbox folder "Summer Music"

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Invite up to 5 others to get involved in the Songs of the Summer Challenge.

Share the challenge on Facebook + Twitter #mysummerjam

In a few weeks, I will be posting all of the shared playlists to Dropbox, along with the winners of the various categories. Prizes will vary depending on participation.
We are also looking for the Ultimate Songs of the Summer album artwork. If you've got a design worth looking at, submit your idea to nathandokuley@gmail.com, subject "Album Artwork". The best chosen artwork will be used in the compilation CD featuring song choices from various entries.

Categories:

Best for the Barbeque

Hit the Road! Trip Mix

Sunny Side Up Morning Mix

Mix For My BEACHES

The ULTIMATE Songs of Summer Playlist

There are many of you that I fully anticipate to take advantage of this opportunity as your tastes and opinions in the music world are both valued and respected by many. I fully expect diversity in music styles. What do you look for in your summer mixes? Let us know what your previous summers' favorite artists and albums are, and start sharing before it snows again.

i don't know.

2011-05-09T01:25:00.000-04:00

A blizzard is coming

But I don't know when

So put on your coat and get ready for it

Cause I know that I said this to you last week

But you should know by now that this is me

And everybody wants to know where I am going

But everyone should know that I don't know

Your body is flat

And your skin is dry

And its hard for me to remember what I like

I've been here before

Your face isn't new

Your sound is a song written with no tune

And everybody wants to know where I am going

But everyone should know that I don't know

Desert Neighbor "A Blizzard"

Ice Cream Smiles

2011-04-27T23:32:00.002-04:00

Tonight I was able to hug, kiss, and hold a child of Africa here in Mount Vernon, Ohio at a local ice cream shop. My heart was rocked. Please know that children are children, and I wouldn't ever state that the color of a child's skin affects my love for them. But when I held Phineas and played silly face games with him, I immediately thought of the children I shared life with in Uganda. I thought back to the memories of the Sunday afternoon that we piled all of the kids into the newly donated van so they could all go to church together, a first for them. I remember the looks on the kids faces as we took them out for lunch and even got ice cream for everyone. I consider the ridiculous amounts of dancing in the van that we experienced while waiting in town, and the culture shock the mzungo's all felt when the kids opened up the van door to throw their trash out on the ground in the middle of town.

Phineas is the son of my director at work, who is also a good friend of mine. Our relationship dates back to my junior high days when he was a youth pastor in my area. Unfortunately, he knows the many sides and seasons of my life, including the obnoxious middle school memories that I sometimes try to disguise. He and his wife Kelly have a beautiful family, and their adoption process was a building point to the passion that has been discovered and incredibly fueled from the Ugandan experience. Phineas was adopted from Ethiopia, and I was able to be at the airport for his first steps on American soil, the interaction with his new family, and all of the love that came with it. Tonight was the first time I had seen Phineas in a few months, and I noticed a dynamic change in the way that I love on children. It's a God-given appreciation and desire to just absorb their joy, wipe their tears (and mouth if you are eating ice cream), and embrace the beauty of it all. It was simply another affirmation that the Lord is actively present in my life. He always has been, I just haven't always been aware and open to it.

There is so much beauty in the stories of redemption and deliverance through adoption. This entire season of knowledge and growth is appropriately happening in a time where I have dove into the thoughts of inner healing and reflection of the earliest memories that I have. I can't keep up with the seemingly endless amount of stories through Bill Johnson, Heidi Baker, and many others. Fortunately I have some incredible friends and mentors called into the same season of learning.

I long to see more and more of those beautiful smiles.. There are children all around the world that need to know they are loved. And even if they have lost a parent here on this earth, even if they have ever felt abandoned or unloved, they have a Father in heaven that will always be with them, and there is nothing we can do to make Him love us more or less.

kwagala

Phineas Bizuneh Smith

be the change

2011-04-25T11:24:00.000-04:00

I'm grateful to be a part of a generation that has decided to rise up.
A generation of young people that are ready to see change.
A change that this world has been waiting and praying for.
Individuals coming together in the unity of the Lord, Jesus Christ to be used.
To be selfless. To be humbled. To be a difference.

Death in His Grave

2011-04-24T15:46:00.002-04:00

So three days in darkness slept

The Morning Sun of righteousness

But rose to shame the throes of death

And over turn his rule

Now daughters and the sons of men

Would pay not their dues again

The debt of blood they owed was rent

When the day rolled a new

On Friday a thief

On Sunday a King

Laid down in grief

But awoke holding keys

To Hell on that day

The first born of the slain

The Man Jesus Christ

Laid death in his grave

On Friday a thief

On Sunday a King

Laid down in grief

But awoke with keys

Of Hell on that day

The first born of the slain

The Man Jesus Christ

Laid death in his grave

He has cheated

Hell and seated

Us above the fall

In desperate places

He paid our wages

One time once and for all

He's got Swagger!

2011-04-23T15:23:00.002-04:00

This weekend, I have spent my time away from the office to develop self. Thursday was committed to working through Richard Stearn's "Hole in Our Gospel", a great book for anyone that considers themselves committed to a call to His ministry, regardless of where it may take you. I was recommended the book through a tweet @nonprofitcoffee as I was preparing for Uganda. It wasn't until this week that I completed this book and fully grasped Stearn's story as he leads World Vision. This weekend, I read through Rob Bell's "Love Wins". Bell's book seemed incredibly relevant to the Easter season, and I'm grateful that I was able to read his work in this season. This morning as I was going through my regular routine at home, I received an incredible blessing through the phone...12 digits and no name on the Caller ID only means one thing; someone from Uganda is calling.

On the other side of the phone call was my friend Chris. I met Chris (blue shirt in the photo below) one of the first days that we were at the home sorting through all of the donations. He could speak English, had the most contagious smile, and greeted me with a brotherly handshake. In the States, I would expect people to talk about his charm. People seemed to love Chris, as he was incredibly polite, always willing to talk, and a big brother to some of the children at the home. Chris lived down the street with his siblings and mother, whom had been sick for some time. He invited me into his home one afternoon before playing soccer and I was able to talk with his sisters and nieces. It was there that I learned the importance and significance of respect in the Ugandan culture. Every time I would meet a member of his family, they would kneel down in front of me as a sign of respect. At first, it seemed like coincidence, but when his niece that was no more than 12-16 months old did it, I understood how real it was. I was initially turned off by this act of selflessness as bowing down can be interpreted as gross or unnecessary, but came to understand its beauty when considering the lack of respect in everyday culture now that I am back in America.

Chris spent a lot of time at the home with me. He sat up a small practice field in the front yard to teach me some of the basics of football, including dribbling and a few other moves. I was a sweaty mess after going through his training. Sometimes we would stand in a circle and dribble the ball for 30-40 minutes without a single word being said. In these moments, I was affirmed that communication is above and beyond language and verbal influence. These moments may be what make phone calls from Uganda so difficult for me. Each time I receive one, I just wish I was there to share a hug, see some smiles, and hold close to a culture that embraces people. It never seemed to hard to talk when you were standing face to face, but on a phone call thousands of miles away, it can be incredibly difficult.

After my football skills had been developed a bit, Chris invited me to the secondary school to play a game with some of the older kids in the community. The comparison to soccer player Wayne Rooney was at an all-time high during this game, because of my rising hair line and big legs in comparison to a typical soccer player. I was fully expecting to be destroyed in this game, but ended up scoring three goals. The most embarrassing moment came when I pulled my bunched up long socks to my knees, much like American football players. I was laughed at by everyone that was watching. In Uganda, no one pulls them up but leaves them at their ankles.

Through the week, Chris became my "brother from another mother". We taught him about the American slang, "Swagger!" He would always enter a room, embrace a large smile for all to see, then flaunt his shirt or jersey while looking at the girls exclaiming, "Swaggggaa!" I was unable to say goodbye to Chris as he would occasionally run home and watch over his family but not come back for a day or two. My assumption is that he is a big provider for his family. When we would go into the city, Chris seemed to talk to anyone and everyone as if they were a brother. He was a relater, or in StrengthsQuest terms, a "Woo" personality.

A simple phone call from Chris has made my day wonderful.

2011-04-20T19:27:00.001-04:00

Todays post will be in shorter thoughts from the phone.

I can't believe how the trip to Uganda has changed my life. While I expected to be rocked, I had no idea how much it would shape me. I'm a bit confused right now, but so confident in the lords direction for my life.

Sharing my story of Uganda has been the best part about being back in the states. There are still many who need to hear it though. I never expected to go to Uganda and encounter healing, visions, the most powerful presence of God that I've ever felt, and an undeniable love for people, places, and movements.

My pictures are finally posted on Facebook. It took so long to get there. I wish I was able to edit and work on these pictures, but the wait was long enough. Now I will be fighting the bigger battle: video projects. While in Uganda the Lord spoke to me and told me that He was providing the vision for them, so I am confident in His will.

There are a lot of life decisions to be made in the next few weeks. It freaks me out a bit but is so exciting at the same time. Relying on faith is such a battle but comes with a lot of encouragement and affirmation at the same time. I guess some life phrases are more applicable than ever.

Soli Deo Gloria : glory to god alone in all things

visuals.

2011-04-16T23:43:00.000-04:00

It's been two weeks since I've been back in the States from Uganda. It's hard to believe it's even been that long. The processing is pretty powerful, and the opportunities to share stories have been surreal. I haven't cried this much in my entire life, something that I'm learning more about each time. There are still so many stories to be told, though. I haven't even gotten a start on the post-trip proces to-do list. (Maybe I became a bit less Mzungo there, and that's why I can't just sit down and get it all done in one sitting)

Last weekend I was able to share some stories as the photos shown below were a part of my first gallery showing at the Holgate High School Alumni Art Show. I hope that more opportunities to share these children's stories continue to arise in this season of life.

I want their stories to be told. To be seen. To be heard. To be known.

share your story

2011-04-09T02:49:00.000-04:00

3:00 AM - New Bavaria, Ohio
10:00 AM - Uganda, Africa

The week has been confusing as my stomach tries to tell me what is good and what is bad.

Stomach: "starch is good. fresh fruit and vegetables are bad"
Me: "shoot".

I've been naturally waking up early, as if I had been sleeping in for a long time, and when 7:00PM hits, I continue to fight the urge to pass out. A friendly dose of cipro has calmed my stomach a bit, and I was able to eat my favorite American food today, Buffalo Wild Wings Tonight, I'm back in my hometown, laying in the bedroom that I grew up in. A lot of memories lie here at home, and it's a rare occasion that I'm able to be back here. To be honest, outside of my family and a select few people, the connection to my roots is minimal. I've often wondered if that was the Lord's desires or simply something that happened as I got to college and embraced the campus life and leadership opportunities that came quickly. Regardless, it's always nice to step back and remember where you came from, so you can appreciate where He is taking us. What a reminder, that He's got this plan for my life. Tonight I spent several hours sharing stories, pictures, videos, and memories from the trip. I've now shared these stories with 5-6 different people/groups, which has made the processing of the entire experience absolutely wonderful. Some have mentioned how they can't even believe that everything happened in one short trip. Stories of adorable children, life-changing moments, healing, visions, powerful prayer, and so many other things all wrapped into 12 days. While I love to share these experiences in person, I can say with certainty that the Lord's voice was louder, clearer, and more active in my time in Uganda than any other moment in my life. The best way to say it, the veil that sometimes appears between us and the Lord is seemingly lifted in Uganda. The blessings were poured out in abundance, and I'm still feeling that flow of grace and love almost a week after. I've been able to recognize the loud moments in my life, which are filled with background music, text messages, to-do lists, and the desire to put in your days' time. To take these moments, recognize them, and silence them is an incredible challenge. But it's not like the Lord is not present here. (I pray a reminder every day, that the Lord is here, present, active, and working; above me, below me, to my left and to my right). He's entirely present, but I think that sometimes we simply forget to invite Him to be near, to be within, and to be the director of our daily path.

Tonight, people began posting pictures and videos from the trip on Facebook. It's the first time I am seeing most of them, and its AMAZING. I cried immediately when I saw the photos of Sefa, and Shamim. I sat on the floor of our living room with my sister and mother tonight to determine which photos I will be displaying at the gallery for the art show this weekend. For this show, I am going to focus less on the traditional visions of Africa, the culture, and the country and instead let the children tell their stories. I selected the photos of the children whom I felt connected to as I took their photo. In Africa, I felt that connection from behind the camera in a way I hadn't ever felt before. A lot of my high school years were spent behind a video camera, in which connection with the subject can be found much easier through movement, words, sounds, and other expressions. But in photography you've got that 1/200th or so to capture and captivate. Yet when I see these pictures, I am brought back home to Uganda. I remember the smells, the sounds, and above all else, the children. I'm once again reminded of the homeless man I met as a kid that told me, "everyone has a story, they're just waiting for someone to listen". While these children are unable to speak their story to those at the art show, their smiles could talk for days. I really believe that as people come to the show, they will have the opportunity to connect with the kids of Uganda. They are future leaders, politicians, doctors, mothers, and of most importance; our brothers and sisters.

I want their stories to be told. To be seen. To be heard. To be known.

it's been a few days.

2011-04-05T17:49:00.000-04:00

So I'm back in the states. Still processing a lot, but have had the chance to share stories, pictures, and a little video with some friends. Last night I shared for the first time with some of my best friends, with sushi and tea. We ended up talking for a few hours and I still felt like there was so much to tell about. The experience in Uganda rocked me, and was more of an impact that I ever expected.

Back here in the States, I am struggling with major stomach pains, health issues, and everything that I didn't have while in Uganda. I was the brave soul of the group that would try everything at every meal, even if it meant some suspect meat or a bowl of who knows what it is. I tried to avoid American food as much as possible, with the occasional evening crackers and a shot at pizza one night when we all had it. Needless to say, I can try anything once. I actually really enjoyed the food, although my body was probably thrown into a chaotic coma after going almost 8 months without carbs and starches. The Lord blessed me and I had no issues with my stomach through the entire week. The day I landed back in Ohio, I stopped at Wendy's for a classic favorite, the Spicy Chicken Sandwich.. Within an hour I had an upset stomach and I haven't been able to keep anything in my body ever since. Last night I ate rice to see if my body was just addicted to the starches that I had in Uganda.

When I got to Columbus, I found out that my bag was sent to Wisconsin from Detroit. It's funny how a bag can make it from Uganda to Amsterdam to Detroit, but not within the States. I recovered it yesterday and was able to go through some of the cool things brought back from Uganda. I had a fun experience in customs as they had to extensively check out my drum, which I had bought at the marketplace in Kampala. The goat skin used had to be scanned as a precautionary item. I couldn't even tell you how many goofy looks I got from people for carrying the drum on the plane. On our final flight from Detroit to Columbus, the drum wouldn't fit in the storage or under a seat, so it sat between my legs to complete the most uncomfortable flight of my life.

Generally speaking, I was so influenced by the arts in Africa. From music, dance, photography, cinematography, artwork, fashion, and food. It all played such a big part in my time there, and I feel as though it will shape my future experiences. (yes, that means I will be going back. Details to be released as it progresses).

Today I rushed to pick out a few of my favorite photos from the trip to be ordered for prints to be a part of the Holgate High School Alumni Art Show. A few days before we left, I checked my old mail pile and found a letter from Mrs. Baker, my old art teacher. Growing up, art was never my forte. I definitely was creative, but putting it on paper or creating a sculpture was never something I excelled at. But I was invited to be a part of this art show, which, coincidently was themed on expressions of art around the world. It was so hard trying to pick 4-5 photos to summarize my entire trip, but I did pick a few that were close to my heart and seemed to be pretty perfect for a show like that.

I'm going to attempt a full meal here in a few minutes. Maybe this time it will stay with me.

Photos will be up soon.

continued.

2011-04-03T01:59:00.000-04:00

I'm back in the Amsterdam airport... I honestly have NO idea what time it is in Uganda, Amsterdam, or the States. I got a few hours of sleep on the flight.

Being completely honest, right now I am not really in a place to post an update. The last moments in Uganda were very fast, hard to grasp, and are yet to be processed. As we arrived at the airport, we were told that KLM, our airline, had closed down for the night. Katie worked her way to the office of the admins and used her coaching and leadership skills to hold the plane. We sprinted through the airport, waited as they launched all of their software and computers, and eventually made it to our plane. Saying goodbye to the kids at the home was really tough. I had exhausted all of my tears beforehand, but I had very little desire to leave. Once we were on the plane, I sat in silence and read the written notes from the children.

I'm yet to entirely process this trip. I haven't even had the chance to write about the last day. I have an entire notebook filled with thoughts, memories, and insight. Unfortunately midweek, I awoke in the morning to a flooded room in which my journal had fallen to the floor. It is still drying and I am praying for the words to be visible. I'm overwhelmed right now thinking about how many stories need to be told, photos need to be shared, and life that needs to be processed. The Lord shook my life up, my worldview has been rocked, and as some of my friends had predicted, it feels as though I left my heart in Uganda.

Mukisa.

Welcome. Welcome. Welcome to Africa

2011-03-26T06:47:00.000-04:00

I am currently writing from a small internet cafe in Kampala and can gladly say that we are here, we are safe, and I am embracing this experience to its entirety. I can't imagine trying to process all that has happened in a blog post, but I will do my best to debrief.

After posting from Amsterdam, we boarded the plane but remained at a stand still for two hours due to mechanical problems. The plane had very few English Americans, and we were all pretty worn out as it was. Sleep didn't come easy for me, as I only had about 3 hours of sleep in the trips entirety. We arrived to the airport and immediately felt the presence of Africa. After the visas were purchased and passports were stamped, we gathered all of our bags (23 of the 24 were there) and were welcomed by Michael,the Ugandan leader of the orphanage and school, Rebecca, Isaac, and a few others from My Father's House. We are staying in a separate home, comparable to a hotel on some levels, and I experienced my first toilet/shower combo. The mosquito nets drape over our beds at night in an attempt to slow down the mosquitos.

The children... they are beautiful. I have experienced a love that I had not seen, heard, or felt before. They all LOVE to dance and sing, something very close to my heart. I have given more hugs in one day that I have in the last year. Some of the older children love to do handshakes like we do back in the States. In our welcoming service, they performed various rituals, and after our introductions, they asked me to come on stage to learn some dances. I have to admit, once I learn how to move my hips a bit more, I will be a natural. (Note to Self: get a Zumba tape when I get back home).

The children LOVE taking photos and seeing snaps of themselves. The Lord has taught me a lot about patience and simply trust, as I hand over the camera and let children who can't even understand me take photos of their friends. One little boy has learned the rule of thirds already, and is becoming quite the professional. Ronnie is a little boy who lives in the home, and every time I see him he is dancing, climbing trees, or causing some sort of chaos. Ruth, she knows how to get our attention. And when she does, she ends up laughing or in our arms. One of the most beautiful singers in the choir politely came up to me afterwards to talk and asked for my LIVESTRONG bracelet, a staple to my self since the 7th grade. It was extremely difficult to imagine looking down at my left wrist and not see that lifelong symbol, however the Lord was present in the moment. I encouraged this young orphan, to continue to live strong and love the lord. Nothing in this world is my own. And the Lord is continuing to work on my heart in that.

Last night, praise and worship at Rebecca's home with the children was absolutely beautiful. The Lord is in that place, and the children are the first to recognize it. These kids all have incredible stories, bright futures, and the ability to love that I can only imagine seeing in America.

The food is basics: rice, beans, and chipotay (spelled wrong). We enjoyed fresh pineapple while playing futbol and at breakfast we drink African Chai with delicious eggs. My stomach isn't fully adjusted quite yet, but I'm getting there. Sleep, simply put, just isn't happening. I do not know how I am still fully functioning, but the Lord has provided an energy and anticipation of this week. This afternoon we will be traveling to the slums to deliver clothing, bibles, and a few other necessities. As we drove though Kampala, crowded into our van, I quickly recognized that Uganda has many sides.. It's very unique faces are evident, some of which are right next to each other. On one side of the wall stands the palace, while the homeless rest under trees on the other.

Driving conditions are insane here. I was warned about being crowded into vehicles and the fast movement, but it's incredible how people pass each other and move around. Sitting next to the window can be quite the scare if you see a motorcycle fly by inches from your face.

We are trying to learn Lugandan as much as we can. So far, I've gotten "Hi", "How are You?" and the responses, and "Good Night". I spent many minutes trying to learn to say "Playing soccer with my good friends", but we will work on that. I told Chris and Ivan that I would not need to learn how to say "score a goal" since my skills were lacking.

Your continuous prayers are so welcomed and appreciated. I have done a lot of writing in my journal and will be sharing that along the way. I must also say that your prayers are needed as we figure out filming details. I am renting out equipment on Thursday and Friday and will have little to time to film and produce. God does not call the equipped, He equips the called.

Mukisa.

Cross it off

2011-03-24T03:15:00.003-04:00

March 23, 3:02 AM ET

Amsterdam Airport, Netherlands.

Currently crossing off an accomplishment on the annual bucket list, and a lifelong dream. “Leaving the country”. I am currently sitting in the Amsterdam airport in the Netherlands. It’s 3:00AM in Ohio right now, and about 8AM here in the Netherlands. We hopped on a plane from CMH to DET at 3:30 yesterday afternoon, and the 8 hour flight was my first international. Watching movies and not sleeping was the overall summary of the experience. I need to bash on some melatonin on the next flight so I don't pass out. Right now, I think I am riding the morning rush and thrill of all of this travel. I was exhausted yesterday, so I anticipate that catching up. While on the flight I watched a small baby, probably about 2 years old, in front of me. It's pretty awesome to think that she will travel the world at such a young age. I was all over America as a young tot, but never outside of the States. That is certainly an opportunity I want my future family to embrace. The world is full of new people, stories, opportunities, and places to see

Everyone talked about the craziness of Amsterdam and how you could “get just about anything you wanted while in the mall.” When we walked around, I was pretty impressed with the fancy chandeliers hanging all around the stores, furniture which seemed to be the prototypes for all of the IKEA we see in the states, and assortment of coffee and chocolate. Although I must say, the countless shops filled with whiskey and cognac is a bit overwhelming.

Meeting the rest of the team has been a fun experience so far. All of us seem to have a different story, and I look forward to finding those out. It’s powerful to consider that we will be serving next to each other, and in the last day we were simply strangers. It’s not everyday someone walks into your life and ends up experiencing one of the most dynamic and shaping parts of your journey.

If I could share one thing with everyone else here in Amsterdam, it'd definitely be what's in my ears. Explosions in the Sky. I will listen to them in any country that I travel too.

Love.

The time is now.

2011-03-23T14:50:00.000-04:00

At the moment, I'm sitting in the terminal waiting on my flight to Detroit. We just received word that one of the members of our team is stuck in Nashville and is frantically trying to find a way to get to Detroit in time for our flight to Amsterdam. This is about the only thing that feels stressful right now. Before coming to the airport, I delighted myself in a Chic-Fil-A meal and a Starbucks latte, both of which came with an overwhelming kindness and joy from the employees.

Delta Airlines gracefully waived all of our bag fees for the trip, which essentially saved us over $1,000 because of the size of the donation bags. We ended up with 5 duffel bags which were filled to the brim right around 70 lbs. The amount of donations that we received is incredible. Beanie Babies, toys, medical supplies, clothing, shoes, and a few things our American friends would LOVE to have. I can't even believe how blessed we have been in that journey. The funds that would have been used for the bags will now be donated to My Father's House. Just another gift from our community of friends and family that have rallied behind the cause and the trip.

I've been thinking a lot about the ways that the Lord prepares our hearts, minds, and even bodies before we can even recognize it. Right now, I think back to my summer of travel with the Southwest Airlines internship. I got so comfortable in a hectic setting that stresses the masses out. I can even manage to fall asleep while people are running, children are screaming, and everyone needs their coffee. I put in the headphones, put on some Explosions in the Sky, and let it all happen. I've actually been anticipating this moment a lot after little sleep and a lot of movement. It's pretty incredible to think about the possibility that the Lord had this trip in mind when he opened up the door for me to work at Southwest. It ventures back further and further to the opportunities that shape me. I was just telling a friend this afternoon about the progression of my passion and enthusiasm for service in Africa. At this time last year, the thought of going to Africa was secondary to many other things. A career, a family, and a list of goals and accomplishments that I created for myself. Many people that know my story and have seen this door of opportunity open up will attest that it was entirely the Lord's doing in my life, something that I could never take credit for. Could I have predicted this as a part of my life, my season, and my story? Hardly.

So here we go. The adventure continues, the flights begin, and my soul is ready. It is well.

Less than 24 Hours...

2011-03-22T18:01:00.000-04:00

Everything is moving incredibly fast right now. Today, we had tons of kids on campus for the ACSI Speech Meet, and I watched as some incredibly talented kids stood in front of strangers and spoke words of poetic, artistic, political, and spiritual empowerment. I was blown away by these kids, who came from schools from all over the state. I was most intrigued by the students that were involved in the Impromptu section, in which they walked to the back of the room, received a sheet of paper with a quote, thought, or current event topic and were forced to speak about it with only 30 seconds of preparation. (3-7 minutes of sharing time). I'm glad I met some of these future student leaders and world changers.

Now that my last day in the office is wrapping up, it all starts to come together on an instant. My list of things that need to get done before I leave tomorrow is wild. I head in a few minutes to gather some donations for the trip (I will have 3-4 huge bags of donations thanks to all of you), see my parents, and prepare the packing. I'm a bit nervous about the Malaria medication, but I'm sure it beats having Malaria. Throughout the day people kept reminding me that in less than 24 hours, I will be on a flight to Uganda. It still almost seemed unreal, but its sinking in pretty quickly now. My first time outside of America, the first time ever at an international orphanage, and I'm sure there will be many other "first times" to go with it. I'm not really nervous about the idea of being away from American soil, as I've always desired to see new places and experience new cultures, but there is a lot of thoughts that come with the realization that you're headed to a place where, ultimately, you have no control. I''ve grown up in comfort, in peace, and in rich blessings. Now, I will hear the stories and experience firsthand the stories of many that have not necessarily had those three upbringings. Often times, the hardest part is simply letting go. Opening your hands up, spreading your arms out, and taking the leap. But with that vulnerability comes the thrill of the movement, the unnatural, and the ride itself.

I surrender all. Soli Deo Gloria.

4 days

2011-03-19T16:09:00.000-04:00

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In four days the plane takes off.

Today I looked back into my journal to find a donations and prayer list to find my thoughts over a month ago.

"I've got 33 days until Uganda and $0.00 in financial support. I've invested several hundred dollars into this trip and my arm is numb from immunizations. I know that a lot of time, energy, and life will be invested into this adventure. Lord, give me the passion, motivation, joy, and encouragement to serve and love in a way only possible through You. Prepare my heart. I give you this experience. Soli Deo Gloria".

Today, the core costs of the trip are paid for (thanks to some amazing supporters in my community), the bags are filling up with donations and items for the orphanage, and I'm seeing the lists of tasks quickly inching closer to completion. I am challenging myself to spend a lot of time learning how to give all of my energy to Uganda. Alex-Anna, one of the others going on this trip, seemed to say it incredibly well on her blog

"this is a chance to give all I can give to the children over there. To come back completely empty. With no more supplies. No more energy. No more emotion. Leave it all there. This is the chance of a lifetime..I know when I'm feeling completely drained, all of you back here will be using the energy I don't have to pour into prayers for us."

While I fully anticipate complete exhaustion when I arrive back in the States, I feel as if the Lord will have an entirely new form of energy for me. Something that I can not understand, even when hearing the stories of those who have experienced it. While it's difficult to predict or analyze the reactions or response to my journey (why would I even try to figure that out right now?), I expect my worldview to be shattered. I expect my preconceived notions to come crumbling down like a building responding to the forces of explosions.

I desire the connection to my brothers and sisters in Uganda. The news will no longer be simply a numbing statistic. It will be real people, with their own stories. Stories that need to be heard. May He use me as one of those avenues in which His children are recognized, desired, and loved.

Soli Deo Gloria.

God is Love. Love Demands Freedom.

2011-03-17T03:57:00.000-04:00

When I began the thoughts and writing for this post, there was one week remaining between me and Uganda. As I currently type, it's down to six days... I've heard many people use the term "time is inching closer", but right now it feels like very large leaps of time in terms of movement. I can barely keep up. The to-do lists are getting crossed off, which only leads to the formation of an entirely different list. Needless to say, I needed this evening/early morning to process, write, pray, and prepare.

This week, I was very blessed to hear words of thought and wisdom from Miroslav Volf, a Christian theologian and professor at Yale. I don't see it as a coincidence that he spoke to us in ways that were very relative to my current journey. In Admissions, we've been working closely with those accepted into our Honors program, a program I was able to be a part of at MVNU. In my Freshman year, my worldview was challenged immensely as we discussed Islam and it's relationship to Christianity. I went from a close-minded, conservative Christian with very little room for open-mindedness, to a place where I had no idea what I believed or why I believed it. To be honest, it was scary to think and probe at the idea that maybe I didn't understand God after all, and I hadn't expected to come to MVNU to be converted into a Muslim, which obviously wasn't the case. At the end of that course, I concluded that while my knowledge of Muslims was still minimal, I truly believed that they had come to understand some elements of love and faith that we, as Christians, were yet to comprehend as a community of believers. It's so easy to get distracted by the violence, politics, and even media presence of Islam and create a preconceived idea or interpretation of those unlike us in belief or even stature. The Lord worked on my personal discernment, and the journey of finding the Spirit began, and continues even today. Fast-forwarding to today, much of the Christian media is focused on Rob Bell's release of his new book, "Love Wins", in which many are calling Bell a universalist for his approach on how and who God loves. He raises a highly controversial topic that many Christian's fear: heaven and hell. Who goes where, and why? The book seems to pose an interesting question: God is love, but it God's love for everyone? I believe this can be tied right back into Dr. Volf's conversation on Islam and Christianity as he asked "Do Muslims and Christians serve the same God? Both believe in one creator. But is the god the same?" Much like you may predict a theologian to respond, he continued that they were "partly the same and different". I still find myself remorseful that I was unable to attend the luncheon and evening lecture with Dr. Volf.

As I watched a video on Rob Bell released by MSNBC, I found myself extremely aggravated by Martin Bashir as he scratched at Rob Bell's patience, and even started the conversation with a desire of connectedness to the disaster in Japan. Although I am still growing into today's professional media world, the entire conversation seemed to be a progressive trap. The entire converastion makes me wonder how we would think about God and love if we stopped trying to summarize, comprehend, and dissect it.

The theme for the last few weeks of my journey has continued to be love. As I prepare to love in Uganda, I have found myself already falling in love with the people. Those that I am yet to meet. I know no names, faces, or stories yet I love them. I have read countless stories of people who have experienced Uganda, which ignites the spark even more. Tonight I received a DM from a new Twitter follower, @fairtradecoffee who, when I asked for words of wisdom from someone who had been to Uganda, responded, "Pray for open eyes. It's an amazing place, with amazing people. My heart lives in Uganda."

My heart lives in Uganda.

These people physically live in St. Louis, Missouri, but their heart lives in Uganda, thousands of miles away. This weekend at the Extended Melody Project, one of the members of Come Wind talked with me after the show and mentioned that his girlfriend spent time in Africa and she often finds herself "homesick for Uganda". Everything that she does now is reflective upon her experience. In my 23 years of life, I can not think of a place on this earth that I have been which I get homesick for, even after being there for a long period of time. Even the home I grew up in could be absent from my life for a few years without much more than the occasional desire for a home-cooked meal or a few familiar faces. I am preparing my heart for the attachment, desires, and Lord's purpose that are to come. The most surreal moment I have had so far in preparation for Uganda came at EMP as I closed my eyes and imagined myself in Uganda. The event created the visual comprehension that I was indeed going to Uganda. I could sense Africa is every way, from the rhythm of the drums to the smells and movements in front of my closed eyes. I could hear children crying, but also laughing and running around. I felt an overwhelming anxiety and desire to change lives and renew hope within lives, yet felt so burdened by how much needed to be done and how little control I actually had. The imagery was incredible. Tears fell from my eyes and I was filled with His presence. All of this in a matter of a few moments at a concert.... I can only imagine the processing that will need to be done when I am in Africa.

Listen for yourself to hear Dr. Volf at MVNU

Read Rob Bell's latest book, Love Wins

For from him and through him and for him are all things. To him be the glory forever! Amen. - Romans 11:36

extended melody

2011-03-14T18:21:00.004-04:00

extend the melody across the land across the sea
extend the melody as far as you can reach
extend the melody
to the hearts that have been broken
to the voices gone unspoken
to the hands that have no one to hold them
let us stand and sing and bring them hope
give them a song to carry on and spark some hope
let it march into their hearts and give them hope
that's why we

extend the melody

written by: katie troyer

On Saturday night, local flavor met a global cause. Bright lights shined over guitars and drumsets, passionate people crowded into Ibiza 33, and the room quickly filled with the scent of Kenyan coffee. I watched in joy as young people poured their souls into music, one of the driving forces of my own life. From the back of the room dancing, to the blood dripping from the drummers hand, I was just overwhelmed with emotion from the Extended Melody Project. I couldn't ask for a better community of people that were there on Saturday night. Everything about it was wonderful. The music, the people, the coffee (thanks Nevin Street), and the cause, which stands above and beyond everything else. I am incredibly blessed by this, as we raised over $1,700 during the evening. Those fund will go directly to the Royal Hope Academy and My Father's House Orphanage. It's the most incredible thing I could take with me to Africa. As Cody and Ryan announced the funds raised at the end of the night, I couldn't help but close my eyes and well up in tears as my heart beat fast for the children of Africa. I began imagining their faces, their names, and the joy in the moment I meet them. Words, hugs, and tears can not express my excitement for Uganda as I am 9 days away from departure. The Lord has been working on my heart so much, and I feel so many new things, especially a closeness and affirmation from the Lord. All of the processing in the world wouldn't help me explain the changes that He has made in my heart over the progress of the last few years of my life. I know the Lord is calling me to Uganda and I am ready to serve.

Thank you: To everyone who was a part of the extended melody project.

locally grown with a global vision.

(photos taken by Kayla Allen, John Paul Kemmenoe, and Katie Troyer)

Presence and Love

2011-03-09T12:40:00.002-05:00

I can hardly believe that in just two weeks I will be flying to Uganda and experiencing a world that I am yet to see. I've been reading the stories of people in my network of friends that have had similar experiences, and am battling with a lot of the quotes, thoughts, and phrases that come in preparation for the trip. Someone said "I need Africa more than Africa needs me", a well-placed reminder that not only will I be impacting the lives of people in Uganda, but they will be changing who I am and my entire worldview, a part of ourselves that is highly protected and guarded by the experiences of our years and those who have influenced us the most. On the other hand, this is not about me. I am not going to Uganda to be changed, but to love. To learn how to love endlessly, even those that I have not yet met. The Lord is still working on my heart and filling me in on how I will be experiencing this love.. This morning I received a message entirely devoted to love, the Spirit, and some reminders of recent conversation regarding the Holy Spirit. Intentionally reminding myself that the Lord is always present has been such an empowering and fulfilling practice,

"Lord You are here. You are present. You are active and moving. Christ above me and below me, to my left and to my right".

Simply knowing that we are never alone provides one of the most influential forms of love that I can try to wrap my human mind around, agape, or unconditional love. While we continually deny the Spirit, sometimes unknowingly out of our human selfishness, He still loves us endlessly. Philip Yancey wrote,

We need to let it soak in that there is nothing we can do to make God love us more…and nothing we can do to make God love us less."

Even with that knowledge, I have not grasped the full understanding of this presence. Brother Lawrence had an awesome interpretation of this, as mentioned in his writing," The Practice of the Presence of God".

“The time of business does not with me differ from the time of prayer, and in the noise and clatter of my kitchen, while several persons are at the same time calling for different things, I possess God in as great tranquility as if I were upon my knees at the blessed sacrament."

I desire a mindset in which every daily task I encounter, I also encounter the presence of our living and active Lord. At this moment in my life, it's almost exhausting to imagine walking through a busy cafe, or being surrounded by hundreds of people in a work-setting and feeling as if I were interacting with the Lord in continual prayer. This is a reminder that I am nowhere close in terms of discipline and intentionality to where the Spirit desires. Today, Ash Wednesday, is the beginning of a season of penance, reflection, and fasting. God is gracious and merciful to those who call on Him with repentant hearts. His Divine mercy is of utmost importance during the season of Lent, and the Church calls on us to seek that mercy during the entire Lenten season with reflection, prayer and penance. (1)

"There is not in the world a king of life more sweet and delightful, than that of a continual conversation with God. Those only can comprehend it who practice and experience it." - Brother Lawrence

Preparation of Heart

2011-03-03T17:12:00.001-05:00

Last night I spoke to the youth group at the Canton First Church of the Nazarene.Part of my unique role as an Admissions Counselor includes speaking at youth events and representing the school at churches and events all over the state. I'm very blessed to be in a role that allows me to share my heart rather than make a sales pitch. I talked about the journey the Lord has brought me through in the past 12 months and the movements of loneliness to solitude (of the heart), and resentment to gratitude (in many ways) and how that has changed me significantly. Henri Nouwen was a guiding light through this entire process for me, as was the many liturgical practices that I denied after growing up in a Catholic church. Encouraging words were given to me from students and leaders following the evening in Canton, and I was very blessed by all of them. We had some initial conversations about the Lent season and I realized this week that I will miss a few rounds of NCAA March Madness, one of the only reasons why I ever skipped full days of classes or work in the last five years. I know the Lord is working on my heart in that, but it will be a good reminder for me while I'm in Uganda to know that there is more than just college basketball to worry about. (although I must say, my Tarheels are looking pretty good these days).

While many of the people going to Uganda with me are gathering donations, I am trying a unique approach to raise prayers, support, and additional benefits outside of simply going. Enter the Extended Melody Project.

Two years ago, MVNU students Ryan Walker and Cody Snouffer were given an assignment from a professor to "raise money for something you care about". They both dabble in music and find a lot of power and meaning in song, so they decided to create a special event to raise money for orphanages around the world. They've raised over $4,000 in two years, and created an awesome night of music, community, coffee, and making a difference. Artists from all over Ohio have come to town to perform for an audience of young people with the same passions for music and a perfect ambiance for a great night. Fast forwarding to the present, the EMP is a much-loved event here in Central Ohio and all of the proceeds from this year's event will be heading to Kampala with me to present to Rebecca and the kids of My Father's House and the Royal Hope Academy. I am SO thrilled to be a part of this years event. We have been preparing the promotional videos, social networking, and word of mouth hype. I love who these guys are and the dynamic that they bring to MVNU. See one of the promo videos below.

Read up on this years event on the EMP website or check out the Facebook event. The venue of choice is the Ibiza 33, a former night club in Mount Vernon with a beautiful balcony-styled viewing of the main stage. Two years ago, I was determined to buy this venue to create an all-night community cafe (a dream that still hasn't left my mind).

Extended Melody Project 2011 from Nathan Okuley on Vimeo.

#2 Leave the Country

2011-02-21T17:19:00.002-05:00

It's an introduction I've made many times before....

I was born and raised in Northwest, Ohio and grew up in the Holgate school system, a booming metropolis of….well, not a whole lot. I graduated with 32 kids in my class and one of the more exciting parts about going to college was being within 5 minutes of fast food chains and a Starbucks. Needless to say, I’ve come a long ways since the early days of my life. As a college student, I experienced many different cultures as I traveled to over 13 new cities and lived in Orlando, Dallas, and Columbus. While I have learned to embrace my small town roots, one thing that has not yet happened has been an international experience. After job transitions in the summer, I sought after my passport, the one excuse I always had for not packing up and seeing the world. The day I received that priority-mailing envelope in my mailbox, I felt like I had received a Willy Wonka golden ticket, minus the chocolate unfortunately. But something I was very stern about was good intentions and meaning in my travel. My heart hasn’t desired travel for vacation or leisure, but rather to experience a new culture, to connect with an entirely new experience, and to hopefully be used in some way or another. Those opportunities never seemed to come.

Almost two months ago, a friend of mine had contacted me about a possible trip to Africa that she was looking into. She was looking for my insight, in which I politely recommended keeping her eyes open as the chosen trip seemed both touristy and overpriced for the kind of experience she felt led too. A few weeks later, I received another email from Ashley, this time with information on an orphanage and Christian school in Uganda, Africa that her friend Katie was going to visit in March. This trip immediately caught my eye as I had created a short list of stipulations to help her find the right trip. It seemed to fit perfectly.
1. Try to find someone who has experienced Africa before. Their knowledge will be very crucial in preparation and in safety.
2. Seek after an organization that you can trust and believe in. With any short-term trip, it’s so important to keep the door of opportunity opened to connect with the organization after the trip is completed.
3. Look for something smaller in group size to allow deeper relationships
4. Stay away from purely tourism trips in humanitarian work.

After a few hours of research and some prayers, I gave my personal approval of this opportunity for Ashley. It left me so excited for her, yet wondering if the Lord would ever call me to something like that in the near future. I brought up my thoughts to Ashley and later that week she notified me that there would definitely be a place and desire for a male to be involved in the trip. I faced a series of both enthusiasm and skepticism. I didn’t want to go to Africa simply because the opportunity came. I know that it’s the dream of almost every Western civilization Christian to want their “Africa experience”. It’s something we are naturally drawn too. But I didn’t ever want that. I’ve wanted a God-given opportunity to serve, love, and use the talents that I was blessed with. Beyond that, I’ve been very skeptical of short-term missions trips, as often times it becomes more damaging than good when people come and go within a short time. This trip isn't about getting my fill, or simply so I can come back with African artwork and pictures with orphans. Prayers of selflessness and the pursuit of wisdom overwhelmed my heart. After a lot of thought and fasting, I was able to know that this was something the Lord had placed on my heart. So here we go.

On March 23rd, I will be flying to Kampala, Uganda, Africa to spend 10 days at My Fathers House and the Royal Hope Academy, an orphanage and partnering Christian school. While I am still learning about my responsibilities, I am optimistic that they Lord is already preparing my heart and challenging me. The tickets have been bought, the support letters are almost on their way out, and I am starting to feel the timing of this happening, as it is only 30 days away.

I will be continually posting more information on our trip to Uganda here. Stay tuned, and know that your encouragement, prayers, and support are well appreciated.

This is a photo taken by Jeremy Cowart, one of my favorite photographers. Years ago in Orlando, I was able to promote his book, "Hope in the Dark" through RELEVANT Magazine, and we even had an entire wall in our office devoted to his photography.

24 Before Turning 24

2011-02-19T11:51:00.001-05:00

After some thoughtful contemplation, I am now ready to conquer a created list of “24 Things to Do Before Turning 24”. This is the 2^nd Annual to-do bucket list that I’ve created and I am really excited to go after these adventures and experiences. I can already make some assumptions about the list below as some of these are almost certain to happen in the next year (2 + 22), while others will require a lot of work and intentionality (5, 9, + 24). There is a diverse selection of tasks, from health and lifestyle to creativity and the arts. The years’ wildcard comes in the form of a more abstract challenge, much like last years failed attempt to “Make a mistake but get paid for it”. Here’s a look at the official list:

1. Skydive

2. Leave the country

3. Write a poem

4. Raise $1,000

5. Successfully do 75 consecutive pushups/ 10 pullups.

6. Run a half marathon

7. Read one book every month

8. Get a new business card

9. Go one month without additional expenses

10. Fast 5 times

11. Visit North Carolina

12. Take a homeless person out for a meal

13. Host a large event

14. Connect with a celebrity on Twitter

15. Help someone travel the world

16. Make a significant contribution to an organization that I believe in

17. “Judge a book by the cover” and review it.

18. Send a thank you letter to a creative

19. Get a crowd pumped up

20. Go on a first date

21. Drop everything and do something

22. Learn how to snowboard

23. Drive a stick shift

24. Create a cookbook

Despite a new year, some things remain constant. Everyone has a story, they’re just waiting on someone who is ready to listen. Soli deo Gloria, glory to God alone in everything.

Here’s to the year. Excitement to come.

Reflect.

2011-02-10T16:10:00.000-05:00

A look back. February 9, 2010. Over one year ago. I created a list of 22 things to do before turning 23. The intentionality of my life as a 22 year old was one of the strongest in my life. While I can’t give credit to “the list” for all of the adventure and progression of my story, I will certainly show my appreciation for having the chance to reflect, do, and dream. I currently am back working at the Naz in a job that I have been able to find both purpose and happiness. The geographical journey went from Sunbury to Dallas, to Columbus, to Galloway, and now in Mount Vernon. The blessings have continued to pour onto my life after several months of anxiety, uncertainty, and some of the roughest battles I have encountered. Needless to say, I’m learning faster and in a larger capacity than ever before. My passions for people, service, and networking have developed and I am learning new ways to embrace these passions.
I successfully completed almost all of the tasks placed in front of me, with the exception of a few:

9. Learn more than 5 songs on the guitar. Write my own song. Writing music ended up being a bigger challenge that I had expected. While I wrote lyrics to several songs, I honestly admit that I lack in the ability of placing this into a music form that is of any substance. With this in mind, my next list will include some adjustments to supplement this.
16. Visit North Carolina. Not completing this task came as a huge bummer, and I was reminded of that last night as UNC fell to Duke. I will be carrying this one over to next year in hopes that the opportunity arises.
18. Make a mistake but get paid for it. Of the entire list, this was the most abstract and open to interpretation of all of them. I was anticipating a “ah-ha!” moment to cross it off the list, but my mistakes didn’t create any payment.
20. Complete the P90X program Two tries, both diminishing after 3-5 weeks. But speaking optimistically, I have lost over 50 lbs since I created that list, and I feel incredibly healthy and energized.

Intentionality is contagious, but does that mean it spreads like wildfire? For several years I have had a quote from John Wesley at the ending of all of my emails. “Catch on fire with enthusiasm, and people will come from miles to see you burn”. I think about the way that I have been affected by people that I meet who are continuously striving for excellence, for a constant challenge of heart and mind; meanwhile pursuing these things unselfishly and with gratitude. I’ve met many people that heard about the annual bucket list or various “Buried Life” aspirations and have reached out to do similar actions. To live and seek fulfillment, perhaps we need to catch on fire and burn so bright that people around us can’t help but look.

Thank you for being a part of my story as a 22- year old. With the beginning of 23 comes the opportunity for me to process everything that has happened in the last twelve months, and the excitement that comes while considering the next twelve. The new list will soon be up.

A look at 2010

2011-01-07T10:48:00.004-05:00

Most people blog their year review BEFORE the New Year hits. I decided to wait until the week after, primarily because the below information has been compiling onto a stickie note on my desktop for the entire year, and is finally composed into a final piece. Here is a look at some of the top media, books, and influences on 2010.

Top Albums of 2010:

Mumford & Sons- Sigh No More

Arcade Fire- Suburbs

Kanye West-My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy

Drake- Thank Me Later

Jonsi- Go

Honorable Mentions: Tallest Man on the Earth, Broken Bells, MGMT, Vampire Weekend

Movie to See in 2010:

INCEPTION

Shutter Island

Toy Story 3

Best Books Read in 2010:

Life of the Beloved by Henri Nouwen

Small is the New Big by Seth Godin

The Imitation of Christ by Thomas Kempis
Purple Cow by Seth Godin

Reaching Out by Henri Nouwen

Best Websites of 2010
Alegria: Hope Through Art: A friend of mine in the nonprofit world recommended that I check out this organization of young creative that were doing something bigger than themselves in the art forms that they practices, many in their profession. This is exactly what I want to be a part of someday.

Make Me Royalty : this is my first website created for a job campaign. The entire experience, from ideation to launch, was in a 48 hour time period. It was thrilling, exciting, and a much-needed use of creativity at the given season of life. Not only that, but it opened my eyes to what I am passionate about, the types of "work" that I find purpose in, and even a few meanings of life. Through the campaign, I found the support and encouragement of my closest friends, mentors, and peers. Truly life changing.

MVNUSID: Dave gets social media and people, ranging from interaction with celebrities and large corporations, continual MVNU Sports updates via Facebook creating "Cougar Nation", and a highly respectable blog. Dave Parsons has been a part of my life for over 5 years now. He helped me establish my first college job, an assistant job in Sports Information. What started by simply running a scoreboard progressed into one of my favorite work experiences as an PA announcer. Over the years, we have continued to establish our friendship beyond the workplace (although the score table and NCAA experiences together have been pretty memorable) and I am continually amazed by who he is. A father, a work horse, a man of dedication, a sports fanatic, an image of the love of Christ. One of the most intriguing things to watch in 2010 was the evolution of his social media presence. Many wouldn't know (he is humble too), but he was actually one of the first to see the Ted Williams "Golden Voice" viral videos, and spent a lot of time using his networking skills to spread the word about the man's incredible story. He's connected with people such as Alyssa Milano, ESPN's Darren Rovell, Constantine Maroulis, Amy Martin, Rebecca Lobo, and MANY large businesses. Dave simply cares about people, he loves interacting with them, and he has been an incredible mentor and inspiration.

Live Fashionable I'm a sucker for a great scarf. Even more so when its created by an Ethiopian woman saved from a life in human slavery. This was the organization that I supported this Christmas for the gifts of many people in my life. I love what they are doing, they come with great partnering organizations (the Mocha Club), and I will continually watch them emerge into today's fashion with a greater purpose.

Seth Godin's Blog: This blog continually provided inspiration and education as I consider some entrepreneurial ideas and continue to dream big in everything that I do.

Digital Royalty : this organization is growing fast and is doing incredible things in the world of social media. I've talked with members of their team and love their enthusiasm and hard work. There are some awesome personalities as well! Amy Martin has become a personal inspiration in her desire to use social media as an emerging form of communication, as well as a means of encouraging those around you to be the best that they can be. She would certainly be considered the Entrepreneur of the Year in my opinion because of her ability to connect. Be sure to follow her on twitter @DigitalRoyalty.

Most Remembered Words of Wisdom in 2010

Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there's a dream there is hope, and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living.

A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has. -Margaret Mead

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit"- Aristotle

Carpe Diem

Thanks for being a part of my life, even through digital interaction and social media presence. You are truly appreciated. May your year be filled with the grace of the Lord, the joys of the life we have been given, and the continual love that we aim to show one another.

Winter's Song

2011-01-04T12:02:00.002-05:00

If winter has to happen, this is how it should be done.

Jonathan & Melissa Helser are a duo that I stumbled across when a friend recommended John Mark McMillan's album to me. Some venturing through his blog introduced me to the Helser's. There is something absolutely beautiful about their voices in the cold air, the sight of their breath especially.

What if we had visual comprehension and affirmation of everything that came from our mouth? Every word, every smile, every cry out?

Dream outside of dreams.

2010-12-26T02:52:00.000-05:00

I've been watching INCEPTION over this holiday break. I'm actually getting addicted to it, trying to find the alternate possibilities for explanation and "truth". I knew I had gone too far when I was searching message boards to get in on the conversation. It's got me thinking a lot about dreams. Now anyone who knows me is thinking, "Really, Nate? You don't already think about dreams enough in your life? It seems like everyday you tweet something about dreaming big, inspiring a new idea, or some other morsel of information that's far from small". While this is all true, I am so caught up in my personal hopes and dreams, along with the patient seeking of His will. The two compliment each other very well, yet in some selfish ways become the biggest challenge of this season. As I have been writing this, I have had three separate conversations involving bucket lists, the fulfillment of childhood dreams, and considering the current seasons of life and its relation to our next steps. It's something that I get fired up with enthusiasm about. It ignites a small spark that rarely diminishes and turns it into an unquenchable flame that keeps my mind and heart racing.

Here's just a few ways that I've found myself up at the odd hours of the night, in the craziest places, and far from doing the typical. It's in these moments that I find my deepest inspiration, aspirations, and hopes.

1. Thought-provoking music: Music can set our mind up for just about anything. Heading to run? You put in hip hop or driving force music. Summer drive? Certainly you are listening to the Red Hot Chili Peppers. When it comes to these ideation times, I prefer something that isn't covered in lyrics that need to be understood or even heard. Sigur Ros and Explosions in the Sky are my biggest culprits of dream time. Also competing would be various soundtracks, symphonic orchestras on vinyl (adds a cool ambiance), and the latest addition is "Olafur Arnalds".

2. A Unique Spot: You could be sitting upside down from your bed with the blood rushing to your head, or perhaps on the ground entirely, but with your shoes on. Try sitting on the counter. One of my unstoppable moments came this winter on the wooden steps of a retreat center while I was working a fall retreat. It was freezing outside and I had no coat on me, but I could see the darkness of the lake and the breeze was a constant reminder of how many things we fail to recognize in every moment.

3. Journaling: Writing your thoughts isn't just for 13-year old girls. It's incredible what taking notes after a conversation, writing out ideas late at night, or simply sketching until inspiration reaches your mind can do. My personal favorite medium is a Moleskine Cahier journal with the flexible cardboard cover. They fit in a back pocket (or for you ladies, the purse) and are easily accessible. I hope to someday have a whole shelf of these journals, reflecting on years of thoughts, idea, business plans, stories, and dreams. They come in packs of 3, so once you start using them, chances are you will give a few away and continue buying more.

4. Community: Surrounding yourself with people that have similar aspiration, goals, and dreams is possibly the toughest, but most practical way to find inspiration. Trying to come up with something entirely on your own takes a lot of time and patience, both things that creatives find difficult to manage. Find those around you who are doing what you love, or intend on doing so. But seek diversity as well. Sometimes the best motivation can come from your exact opposite. So you're a business grad that works in Accounting? Go meet an artist or musician outside of the office. You are a teacher? Go talk to a stay at home parent. If you think you have what it takes to lead a community like this, I recommend my current read: Tribes by Seth Godin If you don't think you have what it takes.. DEFINITELY read it.

5. Solitude: I know it doesn't seem to make much sense to completely contradict a point immediately after making it, but bare with me. Finding solitude is essential as well, whether you are a spiritual person or simply someone who just loves to create. I could list many scientists, priests, musicians, monks, and famous authors who have written some of their finest while alone, quiet, or simply on a retreat away from distraction. While community comes as a top priority, the contentment in solitude is essential to our personal well-being, our beliefs, our creativity, and even our profession. If you're reading my other posts, you know I just wrapped up Henri Nouwen's "Reaching Out". It's a must-read.

6. Spontaneity: One of the coolest things I did this past fall was wake up at 4:30 AM and drive into the country in search of the perfect spot to watch the sun rise. I hadn't intentionally seen a sunrise in almost a year, and it was time to rekindle that relationship. I grabbed my Bible, a bottle of orange juice, my Nikon, and a blanket. After some searching, I was able to find a large, grassy area surrounded by corn fields with a small hill that overlooked the spot of the sunrise. It was the best time of reflection and thought of my entire fall. I even managed to get some cool shots of the area, which included a rusty red park bench with the back on the ground, and a small bird bath which had been weathered and through an Ohio winter or two. Sometimes simply being able to rip out a day on the agenda, shut down the macbook (no, putting it to sleep doesn't count), and leave the text messages and facebook updates behind is all we need to let the mind do it's thing. The toughest part is simply being willing to embark on these adventures. I spent way too much time in college preparing for "real-life", which at the time felt like would be my first job, making $65k, living in an apartment as seen at Pottery Barn. Looking back at it, rather than fighting to pay off every bill and over-analyze every project I worked on, I would have considered some of the alternatives around me.

More to come down the road.. I'd love to hear what elements make your creative/innovative/dreaming space? I'd encourage you to seek that out if you have time of rest and an empty calendar this Holiday season.

Reaching Out

2010-12-23T00:36:00.000-05:00

As the calendar year is coming to an end, I spend a bit more intentional time reflecting on the past 12 months, specifically all the ways that my life has been blessed. This year, more so than any other year, I have been blessed in change, transition, and times of uncertainty. In a matter of four months, I lived in 7 different places ranging from apartments to homes and the occasional basement. In those same months I traveled over 5,000 miles and experienced a variety of roles, including the dream of working for a professional sports team and being a barista. Never in a million years would I have predicted that at this point I would be back in Mount Vernon, Ohio. Looking back to May when I felt led to Dallas to pursue the sports job, I guess I never would have ever imagined dropping everything I had for a position with uncertainty and a lot of risk. I also embraced the hospitality, warmth, and love of many people in my life. I received support and guidance in all sorts of ways, in times where I simply didn't deserve any of it. Needless to say, the Lord continues to shape my life and affirm me that our life is filled with many seasons, and our ability to adjust and remain flexible in those seasons is an acquired skill that only comes with time and experiences. The people that He has placed in my life, from work relationships to random encounters and even social media connections, have all been such a valued part of my life.

My heart is still heavy for traveling the world, experiencing new places, and continually connecting with people of all types. Every so often, I selfishly wish that an opportunity to work did not show up so that I could have spent the next 4-6 months in Haiti helping to build an orphanage. It takes a lot of trust in the Lord that my role for this project must be stateside. It is a goal of mine in 2011 to continue providing education, assistance, and support for projects such as this as I am pursuing other things in my life.

I've been diving into a book that I found at a local library book sale, perhaps the best 35 cents I spent all year long. Henri Nouwen, a Dutch Catholic priest, has been at the core of a lot of my reading. "Life of the Beloved" was an appropriately themed book that taught me a lot in a time of life exploration. Beyond anything, it reminded me that I am blessed, broken, and given in the Lord. "Reaching Out" dives into three movements of our spiritual life. The most relevant was the movement from loneliness to solitude. My outgoing and people-oriented personality doesn't always seem to fit well to my independent living situation in a home by myself. The home is huge and is the perfect spot for community to take place, yet often times I find myself alone and seeking the affirmation of friends, family, and anyone willing to connect. Several weekends of intentional alone time left me very vulnerable to the Lord, but it was in these moments that I truly sought after solitude and understood its importance. We can not understand community, fellowship, and hospitality unless we first have found solitude through the Lord. As I struggled to understand more about the movement of hostility to hospitality, I was greeted by an unexpected visit from two Mormon missionaries. An incredible conversation stirred up, and I was able to discover even more about my personal faith and the power of simply listening. These movements have sparked a personal challenge of confronting my insecurities, fears, and using each of them to continue learning.

What season of life are you currently in? I'd love to hear your story. I encourage you to seek the knowledge, but not necessarily understanding, of where you are in your life, and most importantly, why you are there? The truth is, it may not be relevant to know why you are where you are, but simply being aware of these questions presents an opportunity to process where you have come from and how those things shape your identity and story.

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit"- Aristotle

Social Media Strategy for Employment

2010-10-07T12:58:00.000-04:00

Digital Royalty, a digital integration and social media strategy organization, recently posted open positions on their website (http://www.thedigitalroyalty.com/) looking for "Royal Talent". They looked for applicants to color outside the lines, send a video, photo, poem, or Keynote telling them why they should consider the applicant.

My social media strategy included the following:

1. The first step was simple. Follow as many people involved at Digital Royalty as possible. Learn where they are, what they are doing, and how they do these things. The key to a great social media strategy is to be heard, seen, and recognized.

2. I developed a personal branding website www.makemeroyalty.com, which features links to my Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn accounts. This site, modeled around the Digital Royalty branding, offers a fun and entertaining look at my resume and portfolio.

3. I contacted as many people as possible on Twitter to launch the trend #makenateroyalty. In a 24 hour time period, twitter users were using this hashtag and connecting with various members of the Digital Royalty team through Twitter so that they would find @ndokuley and his non-traditional application. In the first 8 hours, over 40 different tweets had been sent to @DigitalRoyalty with mentions of www.makemeroyalty.com or #makenateroyalty.

@WeezyWade22: I had a dream that @ndokuley became royalty and the world was finally at peace. So go ahead @DigitalRoyalty, #makenateroyalty. My dreams are never wrong.

@MVNUSID: So if there can be a #BurgerKing and a #DairyQueen, surely @DigitalRoyalty can #MakeNateRoyalty @ndokuley.

@RealtyFive: Hey @DigitalRoyalty, @ndokuley is phenominal. Used his work in the past. #MakeNateRoyalty

4. Next, I uploaded a video response on YouTube, connecting it to Digital Royalty's call out for applicants. This video created by dR featured all of the innovative things they were looking for. I created a one-take rap and created a video to prove my technological skills involving video.

Watch the video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QBPtOY0maCg

5. . The final piece of the strategy came in the form of a publicity stunt, starting in Ohio and making its way to Phoenix, Arizona. I ordered a professional designed cake from a bakery in Phoenix, Arizona to design a specialty Strawberry Shortcake (a personal favorite) which would be delivered to the Digital Royalty home office. On this cake, the staff would find "ndokuley, #makenategreat, and www.makemeroyalty.com as well as my full name. Attached to the bottom of the cake was a note which read:

"Dear Digital Royalty,

I love cake. Most people use it to celebrate important events, special occasions, and annual events. But believe me, some of the best cakes come at unexpected times. This is one of those cakes. I hope that it make your day brighter. And you never know, maybe some day we can eat cake together.

- Nathan

RESULTS:

DM from @DigitalRoyalty

Hi Nate, love your campaign & style. We just had an offer accepted 4 the last position but we're growing quickly. Pls stay in close touch. Also, here’s my email and mobile.

100+ #makenateroyalty statements made throughout the campaign.

Invitation to Join the Exclusive Sevans Network, created by PR professional Sarah Evans (@PRSarahEvans).

Featured Story on Sevans Network blog.

Twitter “follows” from PR and digital marketing professionals from all over the world.
I am currently being followed by @DigitalRoyalty, Amy Marin. She currently has 1,307,316 followers and is only following 5,980. I am humbled by that.

Love (me) Do

2010-09-09T03:02:00.005-04:00

I'm a big believer in people doing things they love. I grew up seeing a lot of people simply compromising for whatever life brings their way. Women getting pregnant and never pursuing their college plans, guys working in a factory to pay off some bills but never leaving because of retirement plans and contentment. It's basically the standard American dream to find the essentials of life and be satisfied. I am also a big believer in going after and actually doing rather that just thinking or saying. How annoying is it to hear someone that always has these sweet ideas, but when you check back up with them, they haven't even taken the first step in the direction of making these things a reality? What makes things interesting is bringing the two elements together.

Doing what we love, and loving what we do. I am in the middle of that, hence "Love (me) Do", a little play on words from the Beatles 1958 love song.

I'm currently in the process of finding out what drives me. What makes me want to wake up at 5AM every day and spend 40 hours a week of persistance? Because honestly, how many things could there be out there that can make 40 hours "fly by"? I am a dreamer at heart. In many ways, I have settled my way through the 22 short years of my life, thinking I had it all figured out, career at hand, and the details all figured out. Suddenly after a few leaps of faith and trust, its not the case and then enters the suspicions of life, frustrations of uncertainty, but excitement of wondering what comes next. I have been reinventing some of my ideas from many years ago and can see both maturation and renewed spirit in these ideas. While my most commonly approached wall of disappointment often comes in the form of financial support, I began asking the question, "What can I do right now with my limited income and plethora of loans?". It makes the challenge even tougher, but we all know how much a man loves a tough challenge or competition.

Speaking of men, I have recently been reading "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge, which discusses masculinity in reference to Christian culture and God. I was recently having a conversation about the image of Jesus Christ that we typically think of. My mind automatically shifts to the pictures of Jesus in my catechism books and on the walls of Sunday School rooms. Jesus is sitting on a perfectly placed rock with children around him. There is a sense of peace, comfort, and support. But consider this. Jesus was also a man worth fearing. Think about the times that he had to deal with the Pharisees. In Luke 13, the Pharisees are bashing on Jesus for healing the crippled woman on the Sabbath. In a way, Christ draws the enemy out into the open, exposes him, and shames him in front of everyone. Other instances of God's "not-so-Mother Teresa" moves are the plagues and death of every firstborn. When the Spirit of the Lord came upon Samson he did some pretty impressive things too, like killing a lion bare handed and killing 1,000 men with a donkey jawbone. These actions are a bit more like Braveheart to me. So is Jesus more of a Mother Teresa or a William Wallace?

Thou art my life- I the brook, thou the spring.

Because thine eyes are open, I can see,

Because thou art thyself, 'tis therefore I am me.

- Diary of an Old Soul

Check out some of these great people doing things that they love.

http://www.thesenumbers.org/

http://www.arthouseamerica.com/

http://www.wearealegria.org

http://www.eyeswideopenint.org/

What do you love to do? What are you doing about the things that you love?

Let the conversation start now.

inspiration

2010-08-10T00:13:00.001-04:00

where does one find inspiration? honestly, it's all over the place. here are just a few of the things i have seen in the past few hours that just made me think, "hmm, that's interesting". perhaps this is inspiration.

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too many drugs...

this is ratatat. a must listen if you haven't already. they are my late night jam. and my drive jam. and my....ok they just jam. source

life in observation

2010-07-27T22:30:00.010-04:00

here are some of the many observations that I have made in the last few weeks. I would typically write about them in extensive format, however to switch things up, I will stick to simply the observations.

1. couch parties should be a social event.
2. joseph gordon-levitt somehow manages to believe in angels to help win the pennant, but years later starts messing around with peoples dreams. this is a mystery.

3. people love their starbucks. so much that they must beg for 12-step specialty drinks simply to feel important.

4. google has some tight security. don't lose your passwords or it will come back to haunt you.

5. we don't necessarily need a home or apartment, just a place to fall asleep without feeling fear. i can't sleep in fear.

6. one in every 12 people can dance well. of the remaining people, 3 decide not to move at all while the others just act like they have control of their body.

7. one can create the taste of captain crunch with simple flavors such as toffee nut and strawberry.

8. the greatest sense of peace comes with the realization that we are not in control. but sometimes it also comes with an overwhelming nervousness or a bad case of the hiccups.

9. shrimp goes with everything. except gummi worms.

10. it doesn't matter what it is, if you are doing 40 hours of it each week, it's gonna get old and boring. besides sleeping, i'm cool with that.

11. "monsters of folk" aren't scary at all. they are actually quite peaceful.

12. we need each other. the power of community is stronger than any career, security, or joy that i have found.

grace and peace.

the now.

2010-06-12T01:59:00.000-04:00

As always, my life turns to the evolution of lists. If you would walk into my room right now, you wouldn't even consider the idea that I am organized. But when it comes to life, work, or daily ritual, I honestly love a little organization. I think that I have determined what I currently seek out in my life. It's pretty simple in itself, but requires such an unnatural intentional mindset on a daily basis. These have proven to be some of the toughest day to day battles, especially when faced with mediocrity, selfishness, and more.

1. Enjoy time away from work when the opportunity arises.
2. Don't get so worked up about money.
3. Feel great about myself. If I don't, do what needs done to make it happen.
4. Help others. Genuinely.
5. Hear the stories of those around me.
6. Sleep in.
7. Travel.
8. Read to learn.

Faith in God without hope in his promises is tainted trust. The craving for tangible resassurance of God’s faithfulness increases. We press for more convinving proofs of abiding divine presence. When they are not forthcoming, we decide to take control. Safety is our only passion. In a spiritual life charged with ambiguity, we cannot afford to make mistakes. Endless analysis replaces creative action. We must have absolute clarity before we can proceed. What we have failed to learn is that clarity, reassurance, and proof cannot create trust, sustain it, or guarantee any certainty of its presence.

Henri Nouwen once remarked, “One of the most arduous spiritual tasks is that of giving up control and allowing the Spirit of God to lead our lives.”.

live for today.

Transitions

2010-05-15T10:58:00.000-04:00

My social media life has taken a short vacation, as you can probably tell. In replacement, plenty of real-life has hit me.

Long story turned short, I am in the middle of one of the biggest transitions in my life. In just a few days I will be driving down to Dallas, Texas. This time, I won’t be driving back to Ohio. This last week marked my final days as a MVNU Admissions Counselor, one of the most unique and memorable life experiences that I have had. The role challenged me in ways that I could never expect in another work place. Meanwhile, the relationships that I built with co-workers, managers, and incoming students was life changing. While it is very hard to transition out of this position after only one year, I believe that this is the right direction for my life. The MVNU community will be greatly missed, however I know that those relationships will continue on, despite location and proximity. I have been challenged to go out and change the world with the Love of Christ, and have every intention of doing so.

While in Dallas, I will be living with my wonderful grandparents, whom I spent two summers with during college. They are an amazing blessing to my life, and I will enjoy getting the chance to help take care of them during a time of need. I will also be pursuing a career in sports, a dream of mine since I was a child, through the NBA Dallas Mavericks organization. I am working with them as they launch their new D-League team the Texas Legends. I really hope that I can prove myself within this organization and see where it takes me. I know it will be hard work, but I have always been one for a competitive challenge. God willing, this is going to make for a great story someday.

Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!

Oh, the places you’ll go! There is fun to be done! There are points to be scored. There are games to be won. And the magical things you can do with that ball will make you the winning-est winner of all. Fame! You’ll be famous as famous can be, with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.

Except when they don’t. Because, sometimes, they won’t.

I’m afraid that some times you’ll play lonely games too. Games you can’t win ‘cause you’ll play against you.

All Alone!
Whether you like it or not, Alone will be something you’ll be quite a lot.

And when you’re alone, there’s a very good chance you’ll meet things that scare you right out of your pants. There are some, down the road between hither and yon, that can scare you so much you won’t want to go on.

You’ll get mixed up, of course, as you already know. You’ll get mixed up with many strange birds as you go. So be sure when you step. Step with care and great tact and remember that Life’s a Great Balancing Act. Just never forget to be dexterous and deft. And never mix up your right foot with your left.

Kid, you’ll move mountains!
So…be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray or Mordecai Ale Van Allen O’Shea, you’re off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So…get on your way!

A Weekend to Remember

2010-03-15T18:17:00.002-04:00

This week, many friends of mine are all around the world exploring the beaches of the coast, the tourism spots of the city, and the photo opportunities of the international trek. This is the first time in four years that I have not been able to experience a Spring Break (one of the many sarcastic "joys" of growing up). In some recent conversations with recent graduate friends, I realized that when the real world hits us, we all need those times to get away from home, the office, responsibility, and every other adulthood task that you can think of. For students, it's Spring Break. For us, it's "needing to get away for a weekend". That was my weekend.

On Friday afternoon, I organized the perfect scenario for my weekend. Friday night was spent around home, spending time with a few friends, shooting pool at a local spot, and staying up late with my roommate discussing ways that we could improve our street cred. Saturday morning came too soon, as I traveled to Cincinnati to meet up with my sister and her husband. Who knew that Don Pablo's still existed? As children, we would drive an hour and a half every year to the closest Don Pablo's restaurant for Stephanie's birthday. Thanks to Newport, KY our childhood was relived.

My sister and I both grew up in an artistic, creatively-inspired home. I still recall my mom's various decorating adventures, from painting sweatshirts to decorating pretzel sticks for large-scale events. Dad was always out in his garage crafting up one of his many projects, repairing our vehicles or building his own. I really believe that being around these atmosphere's was what enabled Stephanie and I to be very interested in creative experiences for work. Granted, I was not blessed with the clean handwriting and amazing drawing skills of them, I have always desired to be in a career that allowed ridiculous amounts of creativity and innovation. For the first time in many years, my sister and I were able to experience art together, sharing our thoughts and observations as we explored the Shepard Fairey exhibit at the Contemporary Arts Center in Cincinnati. Shep is one of my favorite artists that I have experienced, a unique mix of underground propaganda and focused, intentional art with a purpose. The overlying theme of his work seems to be simple: question everything.

Phenomenology attempts to enable people to see clearly something that is right before their eyes but obscured; things that are so taken for granted that they are muted by abstract observation.

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Beyond that, I was able to see some of Fairey's cultural iconography and political revolutions. I plan on going again and am encouraging everyone to check it out. Definitely worth the trip.

The capstone of the day was the last-minute decision of my friend Brooke and I to drive 4 hours to Louisville, Kentucky. Our purpose: John Mayer. He played in Columbus on Friday night and many friends were able to constantly upload Twitter posts and Facebook comments anticipating the event. No one was able to say the same about the Louisville. After hearing about the concert for weeks, I decided on Friday afternoon to pursue the concert. Minutes later, tickets were bought. It was my first John Mayer concert and I can say with confidence that I plan on going again. His music was wonderful, his words full of emotion. The crowd was dynamic, however the opening act of Michael Franti was suspect. His excitement was powerful, but he admitted to being a one-hit wonder. "We recently had our first entrance into the Top 40 thanks to all you fans. Actually, we've never even been in the top 500,000 before now."- Michael Franti

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The poster below was my favorite piece from Fairey. It was a poster print created entirely of text, arranged in bold and normal text, creating the Andre the Giant image that created OBEY Propaganda. In this text, Fairey is speaking directly to the audience in a clever, manipulative way. He talks about marketing ploys, how advertisers get you to do what they want, and the power of control. About halfway down the text, Fairey tells the reader to stop reading. But a few lines down, he states the obvious, that the reader can not stop reading, simply because they were told not to keep reading. But by doing this, he has won because he actually wanted the viewer to keep reading. As confusing as it all sounds, the entire image is ridiculously clever, witty, and extremely relative to media. He truly understands advertising, marketing ploys, the human mind, and our personal desires.

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And of course, no trip to Kentucky is complete without a stop at a local grocery store to pick up a case of Ale 8, Kentucky's finest.

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Notice: I made a vow awhile back not to use my blog like I used to use Xanga, a way to recap every weekend that I had and all of the good times that came with it. Unfortunately, this was a weekend that I could not pardon. Sorry.

See more of Shepard Fairey and the story behind OBEY here.

Follow John Mayer on Twitter for random comments, great humor, and the life of a cocky celebrity here

The Latest

2010-03-07T16:34:00.002-05:00

It has been one month since I started the pursuit of my "22 Things to do Before I'm 23". So far, that adventure has proven to be challenging, yet achievable. In just these few weeks I have begun many of the adventures that will take some time to complete (getting my passport, learning the harmonica, etc) however I can report that three of these tasks have been completed.

4. Tip 150% to my waiter without him/her noticing.
I had the perfect chance to tip 150%, at a moment which seemed to be totally undeserved too. My server was having a very rough day, to say the least. Poor service certainly played a factor in my experience at this restaurant, but when I overheard a conversation she had with someone regarding her two kids and the busy work schedule she had, I knew that I had found the perfect person to surprise.

15. Send “Just because” notes and mail to others.
This has become a part of my daily routine. I write a few notes or postcards out almost every afternoon, often to people that I randomly think of. The most rewarding part of this experience has been taking time to pray for each of these people before sending it out. Intentionality once again proves its power in my life.

22. Sing and dance in public more often than usual.
This past week, a group of friends and I celebrated the birth of our friend, Lauren. On this special occasion, we ventured to Applebee's for Thursday night Karaoke, a chance for them to "reclaim the night scene". I did not know that Applebee's ever had a night scene, but I appreciate their attempt to do so. Through the night, I found myself blatantly volunteering to assist in everyone's karaoke escapades, with songs like "My Humps", "Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy", "Summer Girls (LFO)" and "Baby Got Back". Many songs later, I realized that I had swallowed all pride remaining in me to perform these musical acts, complete with an air-guitar solo in the night's final performance of "Don't Stop Believing", featuring all 12 of us in our party. This was an amazing night and one that I hope continues to happen throughout the Spring.

I am not the only person pursuing these short-term to-do lists. My friend Abi has been persistently seeking to cross off things on her list as well. One of my favorites was accomplished last night.

~~11. order an insane complicated drink from Starbucks~~

Abi's order: May I have a venti, sugar free, nonfat, vanilla, white chocolate mocha, one pump peppermint, one and a half pumps vanilla, double shot, upside-down, no foam, light whip, three ice cubes, 1/4 teaspoon nutmeg, light cinnamon dusted on top, with chocolate drizzle, stirred, no lid, double cupped, and a straw...PLEASE!

Abi with the barista that was very patient and kind enough to help her cross the task off her list.

What is your dream for your life? How about this year? Perhaps, even this week? What is stopping you from pursuing this dream at this very moment?

2010-03-01T12:13:00.002-05:00

swedish: Som om man kunde
Vidröra lycka

english: Like joy was something you could touch
I wrap it around me.

Several years ago, I had these words engraved into the back of my small iPod shuffle,a small red piece of metal that accompanied me through many journeys. Around the country on airplane rides, across the East Coast on a van tour, and even on the local streets of my community as I exercised..

Can you touch joy? I can certainly say that we all could think of tangible things that bring us joy. Our favorite hobbies, people, and places. When I think about my favorites lists (my favorite music, favorite vacations, favorite people), I can feel joy and enthusiasm welling up inside of me. So why do we compromise ourselves, masking these joys? It's a question I've been battling recently. In Scripture, we are told to "Rejoice in the Lord always, I will say again, rejoice!" (Phillipians 4:4) For Christians, joy ultimately springs from their relationship with God (at least that's what was taught to you in Sunday School). But to embrace the idea that God created each of us in His image, and through us He has created even more beautiful, wonderful things: now that's worth considering.. Inherently, we can find joy through many things, yet it has all been nothing but a continuation of Him and the joy that we find through that.

For many, it's watching a child. Yesterday in church I sat somewhat distracted but very observant. As I drifted my attention towards the instruments sitting on stage, I noticed a small head moving just above the front row of chairs. A young girl, probably about 5 years old, ran around the corner and embraced her family in the middle of the service. As her sibling escorted her out of the row of chairs and towards the exit signs, I saw something genuine and real, simply in the way the young girl scampered behind her sister. Her arms were straight at her sides as if she were wearing an extremely uncomfortable sweater. Her feet involuntarily moved faster than the rest of her body, her eyes gazing up at her older sister in admiration. To me, this is one proof of joy. Proof that in our lives which are surrounded by fear, anger, and disappointment there is a happiness and that can not be shaken. This is joy.

Where is your joy today? What is keeping you from it?

2010-02-20T05:39:00.000-05:00

It's time for a 5:00AM rambling of my thoughts.

So my recent post of the "22 things I want to do before I turn 23" has got me thinking quite a bit. I often spend time classifying things, ordering them in the form of lists or organizational structure. In just the past day, I have created task lists, call lists, and play lists. I've named my top 5 concerts of all time, considered my best (and worst) recipes, and wondered if anything I ever say, create, or write will ever show up on someone's Top List of anything... I also have challenged myself in the creation of these lists, in fear that I'm spending so much time writing the list, that I am forgetting the entire point of it all is to put down the pen and paper and start doing rather than talking and idealizing.

The concept of the bucket list runs very parallel to this thought process. I have always wanted to try sky diving, backpack across Europe, perform music in front of an audience, visit all of the MLB stadiums, run a coffee shop, work for a sports team, and various other things that bring me a sense of adventure and achievement. Some of these things were instilled in my thought process for many years, typically influenced by someone in my life, one way or another. But the growth and evolution of each of these leads me to believe that my Bucket List will continue to adapt, grow, crop, and adjust as time passes. Maybe instead of spending time trying to accomplish these specific goals, my Bucket List should be condensed into one phrase:

start doing ______.

It's somewhat refreshing, isn't it? To think that rather than these wild ideas, you simply just start doing _____. It kind of leaves your hopes and expectations churning, but something tells me it may bring about an even greater sense of accomplishment and fulfillment in life.

In a conversation involving the evolution of music, I considered how music has changed and adapted with so many external variables such as economic status and pop culture. I would love to really understand how the transition of music happened from the guitar-slashing 70's into the synthesizers of the 80's, to Nirvana of the 90's. Someone recently warned me that the upcoming fashion trends for guys will soon be chunky scarves, bold plaid, shorts with tights, and even heels. These are the things I just haven't fully grasped. Are pogs going to ever be cool again? Will the assortment of Beanie Babies sitting in my closet ever regain the value they once held to us? (this one is probably a definite "no")

I suppose I should ask an old, wise person about their adaptations and adjustments throughout life, and how that affected their dreams and aspirations. Perhaps they can answer my questions on generational music shifts as well.

"The great use of life is to spend it on something that will outlast it." - James Truslow Adams

Things to Do Before Turning 23

2010-02-09T00:15:00.005-05:00

On February 5th, I celebrated my 22nd birthday with my friends, stuck in my apartment due to ridiculous amounts of snowfall and ice. Needless to say, I had an incredible time celebrating another year of life, another opportunity to be with my friends, and to hope for an even greater year ahead of me.

In celebration of my birthday, I was inspired by Micki Clark's personal challenge to complete 24 different things by the time her next birthday came. (www.loveandcommunication.com) It's a brilliant idea, parallel to MTV's somewhat impressive new series, "The Buried Life". So I took some time in my last week of the age 21 and created 22 goals that I hope to accomplish before turning 23. There is a mix of both practical and uncanny. Some are simple and could be done without any problem, while others will need both patience and persistence (see #5). Here's to another year!

22 Things Before Turning 23

1. Launch a new blog. (sorry blogspot)
2. Fill a notebook up with nothing but ideas.
3. Donate a weeks worth of clothes where it’s needed.
4. Tip 150% to my waiter without him/her noticing.
5. Finish a 5k. Dare I say half-marathon?
6. Create 2 new YouTube videos to glorify the good ol’ days.
7. Create a canvas painting to display.
8. Throw a surprise party.
9. Learn more than 5 songs on guitar. Write my own song.
10. Own 3 harmonicas and play a blues song.
11. Watch the Chronicles of Narnia and/or Harry Potter for the first time.
12. Get my Passport.
13. Help someone paint their house.
14. Call my extended family on their birthday’s.
15. Send “Just because” notes and mail to others.
16. Visit North Carolina
17. Take more pictures.
18. Make a mistake but get paid for it.
19. Connect with someone on an international level.
20. Complete the P90X program (while surviving)
21. Pay for a strangers meal.
22. Sing and dance in public more often than usual.
23. Go to a John Mayer concert.

Meet Kevin. We typicaly inspire each other to do new things, go new places, and open ourselves for new opportunities. He's a fun laugher too.

Family Force 5 and Christian Music: Pt. 2

2009-12-15T12:30:00.000-05:00

A few weeks ago I posted an extensive update regarding Family Force 5’s recent release, “Keep the Party Alive”. This song sparked an interesting conversation between Chelsea and I, and hopefully has led to the expression of some interesting opinions through this blog.

I would like to make a few more statements regarding this situation. The intention of a Christian music radio station must be identified in these regards. Look at it like this. Some Christian radio stations can be perceived much like how post-modern youths view the Church. This being a group of people that’s strictly looking to congregate within the walls of the Church, very rarely opening their arms out to those who need church the most. Often times, people complain that the Church is not open to the poor, the smelly, the drug dealers, and the alcoholics.

In the same way, Christian radio may perform in a way that only appeals to those who are already Christian-music savvy. The contemporary or worship-based music is sure to draw in the ears of Sunday school-bound families and conservative caravans. Very rarely will a young person scan the radio stations and stop because they hear the latest from Avalon. (Is there even such a thing as “latest” in regards to them?) Is this type of ministry wrong? I don’t believe so. God calls us to worship. Coincidently, many of us choose to worship in the form of music, often in our vehicles or while in the shower every morning. The evangelism of these radio stations may not be as direct as possible, however through a chain-events scenario, the inspiration and challenge of the station may present opportunity for sharing.

Other Christian radio stations take an entirely different approach. They tend to play music that is relative to popular culture and mainstream radio. This is where you typically see Family Force 5, Switchfoot, and other “Christian” bands that emerge within the mainstream media. If the beat is good, the bass is high, and the voices are altered, a young person may be very likely to stay tuned in. What the audience may not realize is that in a matter of a few minutes of listening to this station, they may be introduced to a casual interpretation of Christianity and a relationship with Christ. Use of youth-driven language like “dude” and “man” is often times integrated into our interaction with God. Often times, they are even given a non-traditional altar call or form of accountability to continue the conversation on faith.

I personally appreciate radio stations that are able to reach this demographic. When I was a young Christian, pressured from all sides from a public school setting which included little to no Christian influence, I needed all the help I could get. I was able to invite dozens of my friends to “Christian” concerts starting in elementary all the way into my college life. While I admit many times the call to action seemed a bit cheesy and maybe even a bit too dramatic, I was more than happy to know that my friends were hearing about Christ’s love in a way beyond the pulpit and preachers of the Church. This was the purest form of evangelism that I could relate to at this age.

Once again, I would love to hear your thoughts.

2009-11-28T12:39:00.006-05:00

This Holiday season, I embraced family, friends, and all of the good tidings of Thanksgiving, which include the traditional foods, Dallas Cowboys football, and a movie with the family. This year's most insightful conversation came after a late dinner at Max & Erma's on Black Friday. The conversation had escalated from a previous conversation in the car with Chelsea and my immediate family. We were listening to a local Christian radio station on the way to the Zoo when a new song came up by "Family Force 5".

The song, "Keep the Party Alive" is a catchy pop tune with the ever-so-popular auto tuned voices, and a driving synthesizer in the background. This could be very comparable to “Party in the USA" and will certainly gain some hype and attention within the Christian music realm. The beats of this song instantly cause a natural head-bobbing, “moving your hips like yea” movement. Chelsea was instantly turned against this song, potentially evolving from preconceived perceptions of the band or perhaps her often-critical mindset in regards to pop culture and media as a whole. Her reasoning was clear, at least in her own opinion. The phrase "Let me get my iPhone" screamed consumerism to her. And "I'm like a kamikaze, surprise attack" was too graphic in nature, given the history of kamikazes in war and history. (See below for full lyrics and link to the song). And the phrase "like a thug" as a desperate cry for Christian's trying to build an identity that is culturally accepted through todays popular music, however this term can hit the heart as well in regards to people that attacked an African orphanage which she visited. (the email she received identified the men who broke into the orphanage, beat many and raped several as thugs) Overall, Chelsea wondered how a Christian radio station could play a song so meaningless, while feeding our dwindling society that is lacking meaning and purpose in the movies we watch and the music we listen to.

If I can accurately recollect Chelsea’s perception, it was mere disappointment with “Christian radio” for fueling a fire on today’s youth, which is already being engulfed by the flames of popular music that feeds on sex, drugs, money, and other materialistic venues. The self-indulged message of today’s popular music can typically find itself creating a desire for instant gratification and “success” in terms deemed unhealthy and sometimes even unnecessary for a human being. Beyond that, using analogous words like “kamikaze” seemed to make her believe that they were desensitizing the idea of what a kamikaze really is and how they have affected our world today. Her favorite choice of words in describing what this is creating was “ignorance”. In terms of international conflict, I do agree that kamikaze really is no joking matter. I immediately challenged that maybe it is ignorance in itself that causes her to automatically assume that “kamikaze” has to be a recollection of terror in war, and could reflect its other definitions of reckless behavior. I thought it would be appropriate to show some research at this point.

Note: Official Dictionary report of the word “Kamikaze”
–Noun
1. (During World War II) a member of a special corps in the Japanese air force charged with the suicidal mission of crashing an aircraft laden with explosives into an enemy target, esp. a warship.
2. An airplane used for this purpose.
3. A person or thing that behaves in a wildly reckless or destructive manner: We were nearly run down by a kamikaze on a motorcycle.

I have personally had several opportunities to see FF5 perform live, and know first-hand that their ridiculousness and energy are what draw them to young people around the nation. From their stage names to their ridiculous videos on YouTube, the guys of this band identify a fun-loving good-timed group of friends. Disco-ball hulk hands, dancing band members that don’t even play an instrument, and ugly Christmas sweaters to promote their first Christmas album only begin to explain them. Personally, this is all extremely entertaining. From the first time I saw them to where I stand now, I have always believed that Family Force 5 was not known for their great music, but for their ability to put on a great show. As proven in “POW Right in the Kisser’s” performance at MVNU’s Friday Night Live event, it doesn’t take musical geniuses to play FF5 songs. Furthermore, these guys are doing what many “Christian” bands could not do: performing to mainstream audiences and bringing these music fans into “Christian” concerts and festivals. While FF5 is not preaching the gospel directly in a lot of their songs (Keep the Party Alive never uses the word “God”, and it can be assumed that the only clear reference to Christianity is the use of the capitalized ‘Hero’) you will hear a lot about their influence and modeling image that they give young people. Solomon Olds, member of the band said in an interview with Christianity Today that a Family Force 5 song has to be fun. “And the fun comes from the joy of Christ.” (Please note that it is a rare occasion that I spend time working through articles on Christianity Today for unbiased and educational insight regarding media.)

I do feel this would be a very appropriate time to bring up an entirely different conflict, the distinguishing of “Christian vs. Secular”. This is not a conversation I find extremely valuable to talk about on a blog because of the variety of opinions and decisions that have already been made regarding the matters. I will personally say that I have written this article with a belief that things do not need to be labeled Christian or Secular. Beyond this, it is very important that Christian influence be emerged into mainstream or secular trends, as mentioned in one my favorite books of all time, “Roaring Lambs” by Robert Briner. There is a major need for Christians in the many places that Christians themselves tend to stereotype as “evil”. Some of these industries include film, television, sports, and politics.

After doing some history homework on Family Force 5, I learned that they are currently signed to both a Christian and Mainstream label. Why? “We wanted to reach more people, but we also cannot not just turn our back on the Christian audience.” (Todd Hertz, Christianity Today) One may immediately question the motives of this party-paced, energetic pop sensation in Christian music. Is it all for the spotlight, much like which can be perceived in these specific lyrics? (“People know me Superstar status…””We love to P-A-R-T-Y”) Or perhaps they are looking to emerge into a popular culture with a similar sound, but a unique passion. Check out this personal statement from band member Solomon Olds, aka Soul Glow Activator.

Solomon: We feel that what we put into a live show, into our music, into our website and even into the CD artwork is a passionate love for what we do—for this art. And there's only one type of love that brings out a passion like that and it's the one Jesus Christ showed. He came down to Earth and died for us on the cross and rose again on the third day. That is a very passionate and bold act. We're trying to make Christ-like passion real and alive by being passionate ourselves.

At this point the conversation has gone well beyond dinnertime, with my family sitting around the table watching in amusement as Chelsea and I challenge each other and question each other’s commentary and questions. This really is one of the reasons why I love to be with her.

So tell me, what are your thoughts? Do bands like Family Force 5 create a poor image for Christian music? Are they crying out for attention on the mainstream level by writing songs that can identify with this growth in lyrics that seem to mean little in terms of knowledge and depth? Is Christian music moving into a new age, no longer surrounded by songs of praise and glory but rather embodied into a bubbly, sugar-coated package that creates an image of good times? Should a Christian radio station be playing songs that do not develop wholesome messages that are unique in nature?

Or should Christian radio seek more music like this, with its reach to young people used as an opportunity for evangelism and witnessing? Family Force 5 has stated that their audience really is Christian kids. “They’re the ones who are coming out to see us. And they bring their unsaved friends”. Has FF5 found success driven through the passion given to them through God, or has selfish ambition landed them where they are today? How “wholesome” must a song be for it to be played on a Christian radio station? And how do you relate comments such as the following, found on the music video for FF5’s “Dance or Die” music video on YouTube? “I love these guys so much, and when I watch this it gives me this weird feeling like everything’s going to be okay.”-

Just because a lot of my conversations involve marketing or advertising, maybe FF5 created this piece of art strictly as a piece of advertising literature, as seen in a recent Target viral video. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LoE1PKzg9c

Keep The Party Alive lyrics

Keep the party alive

Hey, where my people at?
How come ya'll ain't movin' yet?
Your party is a zero
Your party needs a Hero

Why you playin' that song?
Let me get my iPhone
Move it, DJ!
Let me get my playlist on

Step up in the club, like a thug
People know me
Superstar status on the... Boy,
You can't control me

P-A-R-T-Y! We love to party
Live to party, keep the party alive... BOO-YAH!

[Chorus]
We keep the party alive (keep the party alive)
We're stayin' up all night (stayin' up all night)
It goes on and on, 'till the break o' dawn
We keep the party alive (keep the party alive)

E'rybody knows that
I get ur girl to hollar back (Hey!)
I'm like a kamikazie, suprise attack
(Rat-tat-tat!)

Step up in the club, like a thug
People know me
Superstar status on the...
We keep the party alive

Don't tell me when the Sun comes up
'Cause we're all chanting, "Let's keep dancing!"
No time to be tipping out
'Cause the clock says I keep the party alive, Yeah!

Note: this post is not meant to spark arguments or the use of ill-placed Scripture and theology. Rather, let it become a constructive conversation and a challenging time for your personal opinions, perhaps even your faith and ministry.

Portions of this article have been quotes from
Party With a Passion
For Family Force 5's Solomon Olds, being in a band is way to have serious fun.
by Todd Hertz
http://www.christianitytoday.com/iyf/2007/marapr/6.24.html?start=1

Fall, Friends, and Finding your Purpose

2009-10-30T17:57:00.003-04:00

I am a big fan of the Fall. It’s actually one of the only things I can really brag about in Ohio. The leaves are absolutely beautiful, gracing every shade of yellow, orange, and red in a matter of a few large trees. You can feel the anticipation as the leaves are teeter tottering between branch and ground. Then finally, they all begin to fall, faster than a homeowner can rake them up. On evening drives through the country to and from work, I usually roll down my window hoping to smell someone burning their leaves, one of the most extraordinary scents known to my nasal passages. Ahh, the nasal passages. All of this beauty also comes with some consequences, including the introductions to allergies, sinuses, and the sickness that travels during weather changes.

I decided to take some pictures of the Fall in Ohio. I plan to add on to this in the process, but I want to share those with you. http://www.flickr.com/photos/organize/?start_tab=sets

In the midst of all of the beauty, I spend frequent hours wondering about the depths of self. It typically starts out as basic as

“what am I good at?”.

It quickly elevates beyond that into deeper thoughts like,

“Am I good at these things because God wants me to succeed at them, or because I personally decided that it would be best for myself to excel in these areas?”

From here, there are many directions to go in my thoughts. I think about growing up being told that God does everything for a reason. Yet on the other hand, we are all given free will. With that free will in mind, would you say that we have the ability of pursuing our ‘talents’ so that we can further advance ourselves? Perhaps for selfish ambitions or desires? A conversation similar to this led into an interesting example of the stereotypical rock and roll artist. Let’s say he spend years partying, indulging in sexual immorality, and drinking and smoking everything that was placed in his hand. After a near-death experience, he turns his life around. He stumbled into a church, he accepts Christ into his life and things start to change. The local church hears that a former rock star is in the congregation, and encourages him to “use his talents for the Lord”. In a matter of months, he is signed by a Christian music label as a once-demonic, now-risen rocker that travels around the USA telling his story. Thousands of young people gather in local amphitheaters and music halls to hear the story of the risen angel. Conservative Christian parents rush to the ticket office to grab tickets for their button-up shirt-wearing kids and their closest unsaved friends, hoping that he will say the perfect thing to get them to raise their hand at the end of the show. The front row of fans is crowded with mock t-shirts embellished to represent Christian principles rather than consumer products and services.

Now this all seems to make a lot of sense, and it may actually identify with a few artists out there… But I ask this question. What if God didn’t desire this man to become a rock star? What if he was meant to be something else? What if his biggest struggle wasn’t the drugs and sex, but the attention and media that he received? So he crashes and burns, ends up in the church, but then the church puts him back into the spotlight because “God gave him the ability to play that guitar”. It wasn’t until recently that I actually started thinking about the possibility that all of that talent came out of selfish desires. The need to be needed, the cry’s to be on the stage with thousands of people screaming your name, it all comes from our own desires. But then when we find God and begin to serve him, our closest peers encourage us to get back on that stage, but this time in the name of the Lord.

A very wise person once reminded me that when I am struggling with these selfish desires, I must break myself down to the bare. The naked. The ugly. The uncomfortable. It is not until this point that I can unselfishly pursue God’s direction for me. Before the talents and self-proclaiming gifts, God may have had another plan for me.

May you be challenged spiritually by the grace that God has given you. May your heart be filled with the glory of God. May you know that He has prepared a path for you, and through Him we may find the meaning and purpose which we all desire.

Q: Q: Does doubt and worry signal a rejection of God's Kingdom?

2009-07-31T01:17:00.001-04:00

A: Not necessarily. There can be no faith without doubt, no hope without anxiety, and no trust without worry.

When these fears threaten to consume us, we can overpower them with a simple and deliberate act of trust: "Jesus, by your grace I grow still for a moment and I hear you say, 'Cougar! It's me! Don't be afraid.' I place my trust in your presence and your love.

-Brennan Manning "Ruthless Trust"

in the wallet

2009-07-28T08:44:00.003-04:00

"I will not be defined by my profession, by my worldly value, or by the standard set by this world. Instead I will be defined by the love that God has shown me and by the gifts and opportunities that God is continually revealing. Not my will, but His be done."

This is a statement I wrote on a small index card back in the Spring as I was preparing for work and the future... I still hold strongly to this value statement, and often need the reminder... Be challenged.

BK Takes a Blow

2009-07-17T09:23:00.008-04:00

In recent fast-food news:

Burger King has once again taken their advertising to a whole new level. Burger King has accumulated quite the track record of unique marketing techniques. Earlier this year they launched a Facebook application called, "The Whopper Sacrifice". Facebook users were able to download the application and remove 10 friends from their friend list. Those removed received a message through the application that stated, ""Eric sacrificed Josh Morgan for a free Whopper." Not a bad idea for a free Whopper right? Well after 233,906 friends were sacrificed, Facebook put an end to the application.

Burger King also released their very own cologne called "Flame". Under the tagline, "Where fire meets desire" Burger King's UK marketing ploy moved into the United States and sold out of the product in a matter of days. The cologne was said to smell like a flame-broiled burger.

Now, Burger King is stepping into the media limelight with a more controversial print advertisement, with more than just a play on words. The promotion was set in Singapore for their new BK Super Seven Incher. Now I assume that my readers are all pretty PG-friendly, but this ad is "blown" out of proportion with words such as blow, and a provocative copy text.

"Fill your desire for something long, juicy and flame-grilled with the NEW BK SUPER SEVEN INCHER. Yearn for more after you taste the mind-blowing burger that comes with a single beef patty, topped with American cheese, crispy onions and the A1 Thick and Hearty Steak Sauce"

Fortunately for Burger King, the advertisement was reported to be created by a local agency in Singapore, rather than BK-loyal Crispin Porter + Bogusky. The media has been outraged, with a big name blogger calling it, " is among the 'worst' he's ever seen in more than 17 years of industry experience."

So it is very obvious that this advertisement is sexually driven. Should parents be speaking out about this "inappropriate" advertising method? I'm sure some of the Conservative Christians are getting their panties in a bunch, but I don't blame them. On the other hand, consider all the filth on any other commercial or television show. You can't flip through a series of channels without seeing a model from GoDaddy, a promotion for the Hooters Pageant, or a sexy alcoholic beverage ad. It's become second nature to us all. While I do find the Burger King ad a bit disturbing, I do appreciate their ability to be clever and witty, despite the message that is still perceived by even the most innocent of minds. Nonetheless, Burger King took a big swing and missed the ball for being such an international powerhouse, making a move of a young brand begging for media attention.

So what are your thoughts on the new BJ, I mean BK ad?

See for yourself,
Facebook Whopper Sacrifice
Flame Body Cologne BK Super Seven Incher (Singapore)

UPDATE: Burger King Does it Again: http://tinyurl.com/mge3ek
Read in the News

I've got fans in low places...

2009-05-01T19:46:00.004-04:00

What’s a Fan?

So you are telling me you downloaded the latest LeBron James and the Cleveland Cavaliers wallpaper? You are such a fan!

Oh, you have a terrible towel on every wall in your cubicle? You are such a fan!

You haven’t missed a home game in 12 years, except for your sister’s wedding but you were watching it on your phone? You are such a fan!

If there is one thing that I have learned about most in the past four years at MVNU, it may be about fanhood. In the past year alone I have stood in my apartment trying to explain my case about being a fan of certain teams that I like. I have wasted hours trying to persuade a group of 5-7 guys why I am a fan despite what they may say. The thing is, this conversation with them has nothing to do with fanhood. No matter what case may be presented, no one will agree. Why? Because we are all fans of ourselves, our teams, and our opinions. It’s competition at it’s finest. But it’s not until now that I fully understand the point of fanhood. It’s not a competition to see who can outdo the other. It’s not knowing how many statistics you have piled up in your head (although this is a pretty unique talent) It’s not even how many jersey’s you have stocked up in your basement getaway that your wife can’t stand. Dare I say it, but it’s not even just about how long you have liked the same team.

Being a fan is not absolute. There is not “This is fan” and “This is not fan”. So, you tell me you like the Buckeyes? That’s great, you are the (Insert Your Name Here) style of fan. Every fan brings such a unique concept of fanhood to the table when they cheer for their team. So let’s hypothetically say a guy named Ryan W. Breth tells his friends that they aren’t as big of friends because they don’t get on message boards and read the website updates every day. That, my friend, would be a bandwagon of YOU, which no one wants. Let people express their love in different ways.

I do give props to the most dedicated fan that I know at MVNU, Adam “Trizkit” Knight. This man lives and breathes sports, specifically Reds baseball and OSU football. The kid watches SportsCenter time after time more than anyone (even though Breth will tell us weekly that he used to watch it 4-5 times every Saturday morning)

I have a new respect for people that can also be a fan on a different level. So you didn’t watch SportsCenter every night? Instead you were out at your church volunteering with Upwards Basketball? I respect that. You worked extra hours at work so you could get that promotion and prove yourself to everyone in the office? I respect that. You didn’t go to a single game this year because you are saving up to buy your wife a gift? I respect that too (I almost BARF!ed it though) Being a fan doesn’t have to mean you watch every game and your life is revolving around that sports team. No offense, but it sounds more like an idol or perhaps adultery.

So you have your favorite teams? You stick with them no matter what? I could care less if you like them because you were just a little kid and they were good. Merely the fact that you stuck with them through the 5 bad years or complete switch of the team means something. I also don’t mind if you like them because it’s the closest team to your home. If you like that team, and you aren’t cheering for anyone else, you are a fan and I applaud you.

To all the fans out there: Find your niche. Find what works for you. Cheer how YOU like to cheer. And don’t ever try to let someone tell you that you are not a fan of a team that you love.

All of this and a college education. Toss in a smelly man apartment, HD-Ready TV’s, and dirty dishes….What a deal!